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Originally posted by Vampire X:thanks Yunhaier & the rest of you who have adviced me. appreciate your time in reading my posts.
i did say about my unhappiness to my boyfriend whenever he lecture me. however, he still think he is correct & want me to change to his way. After that we will keep silent never talk to each other till next day or so then forget the topic. After many times, i give up as I don't want to end up quarrel with him.
Due to this reason & my habit, he felt that I never change my habits, he need to everytime tell me this and that then i remember. I am a very forgetful person & yes his family is very well educated and polite. Unlike me is very rude type. I can say is he actually change me more than I change him. Last time in MRT, I will not bother to let people go out first before I go in. Due to his strict training, I already used to it, must let people go out before I go in. Many times, I let people alight till the train goes off before I can enter.
i think my bf is nicer to others than to me. Many times I wanted to go out when I meet him, when we first dating, we will go world trade centre, east coast park, fisherman village, marina bay paktok. after half year, he never bring me to those places. Every time meet him is at his place I watch him play computer games , eat lunch & dinner with him, watch tv & go home. when go lunch or dinner with him, i cannot talk as his family teachings is eat food is eat food, cannot talk very rude! end up we do not talk as much even though i meet him for whole day. sometimes i feel like he does not need me either. he is fighting to be in charge of an China branch company , he so excited on his work. I wonder if he understand how i feel. he should at least discuss with me. but he agree to his CEO that he is willing to take the position. I also understand that a guy should put his career importantly but i just want him to spare some time for me. Am i asking for too much?
I always ask to go out walk walk other places or movies or visit anywhere but he always say he is tired. But when his friends ask him, he will go. but nevermind, without him I can also go walk walk myself. but the thing i want to point out is how come he so unfair when treat me & treat others...whenever i talk to him about my problems in family or work, he will say i like to nag non stop & say he is tired.
i know i like to complain about my bf but cannot deny he is a good man with good characters but i sometimes cannot stand the way he treat me & really don't know what to do.
\when i read your views make me see from more opinions...like after i read some of your posts, really make me think of many things or possibilities which I have never thought before...
. you can continue to scold me. don worry. just speak out your points.
man are from mars, women are from venus..u alreadi say 1st 6months. he treat u very nice le.
wad makes u think that 'another' guy will treat u nice 4ever/longer.
ur situation is 99% same as mine ex ba.
she stead with another guy 2days after she decided to leave me.
really have to ask urself, izzit because of that guy.
or the problem lies between both of u.
without that guy coming into ur life.
i dun think u will be posting this thread down here.
hais.. i juz feel that in the end no matter wad we say.
u will leave ur current bf.
girls juz let their feelings lead them.
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ha.
my situation a month ago. seems to be like urs. juz that im "ur bf" situation.
as time passed. i didnt treat her as nice as b4.
but remember the times u and him started out.
he bring u laughter? happiness? sweetness?
every beginning of relationship is sweet.
if u leave ur current bf now.
few years down the road.
u maybe in the same situation.
sometimes dont let feelings led u thru.
need to think abt it.
it maybe juz a crush.
im a guy myself.
i feel i didnt treasure my ex enuff.
as times pass by.
i scolded her b4 for nt protecting herself over a indian guy at mrt.
think of it.
i scold her cuz im farkin worry abt her.
for her nt able to protect herself. when im nt around.
ask urself questions.
think of the past u and ur bf did.
meanwhile, dun contact so much with ur college.
get over the crush.
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Originally posted by laogenjudi:I want to buy a new computer. I go to this famous computer centre in town.
There is this RICH TYCOON having a shop in almost every floor in the building, starting with level one where I enter the building. Heard all kinds of bad reports about this tycoon's various outlets. Their sales people are foul-mouthed, impatient and resort to personal attack when they cannot manage to convince you to buy. They cheat tourists. They despise locals.
Also heard from a friend that at level six there is this little shop where service is wonderful and price reasonable. I go all the way to level six to buy my computer.
Am I wrong?
but the level six ppl find u not handsome enuff. and decide not to earn ur money.
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tat time me and my fren eat at queensway mac.
my fren pour the fries out on the tray. den while he still eatin the fires the uncle juz take the fries box and throw away. me and my fren wuz like wtf. ppl still eating. need to be so kan chiong meh.
after that me and my fren come out wif a idea. we ate half of our mcspicy. we close the box. and we pretend we ate until very full... den.... LOL
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