but after reading this..

the innocent itchy armpit who had nv gone into a relationship b4 is now scared...

Originally posted by ghast.:

I appreciate this long paragraphs of words. It really does help in clearing some stuff. I'm only at stage 3. And i don't dare to move anywhere further.

lol... totally the same...

TS: u really say it out...

 

IA

wow... actually the actions u mentioned is like very common in those starting of relationship...

however, i found out that when a person is in love, he/she usually will do something unusual... its like " why this person wierd wierd de today"

another signal is that, if the person say "eh dun disturb u le" after u say that u are reading a book or somewhat that, but the other person say, wont disturb la means its like the other person like the person...

but, if the person replies with a bye or somewhat that, then the person replying dun like the person who say it...

 

also, during msn or sms, the person who likes the girl will like try to start topic to chat, while the girl might try to shorten or end the conversation... however, the person will then start another conversation...

 

correct me if i am wrong...

 

IA

agree agree! first impression is impt! good looking is just a factor of good impression, there are other factors like neat looking, smile, humorous action...etc...

 

however, being urself is great... so i just polish myself and be myself.. easy!

 

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IA

Originally posted by Marco_85:

if u dun like the girl u keep some distance ba... happen to me be4 she giv signals i dunno or try to ignore.. then end up hurting her in the end.. T.T... i tell her i treat her as friend only then she ask y we go out eat once a week after class....i say cos i hungry..n i dun mind her company...n i would go out eat alone anyway.....i had to be harsh cos she  want me to giv it a try, even tho i have no interest in her....she end up asking if i'm gay lol

I actually like talking to her, n this ended the friendship. Opening up in a conversation is nothing but physical actions can mean something tat i found out after =/

 

you said that physical actions can mean something... tell me ur experience leh...

o ya... and dun keep targeting me leh... this is a thread leh... we can discuss together!i only want to noe more... thats all...

 

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IA

lol... u so cute..!!!

u are like me lidat.. i sec 3 now.. i sec 1 like this girl, but i nv confess, sec 2 also nv confess, i sec 3 still like this girl, however, all these years i just talk to her, enjoy her companion as a close friend, but of cuz i will get jealous if she got too close in words or action with a guy...

but dude, becuz of her, i improved my studies by going out with her for studying and she teaching me some work, i improved my looks, polished the rough part of myself..

i also got to noe more bout girls..

well... i advise u not to go into relationship.. not cuz of study, which can be maintain by juggling well with studies and gf... but cuz of that sec sch BGR is like quite childish.. they only can at most maintain a relationship for up to 3 months longest, shortest is 1 day also possible... and i got to noe this classmate of mine, she is a very pretty girl, however she can easily find a stead if anyone confess to her... however, u can see that this girl got no love put in the relationship (or the bf)...

btw, we boys might get played too... nowadays, girls are so good at these stuff and like to cheat the innocent cute little boys out there...

actually i admire u with that brave characteristics to confess to her time and again... however, if she dun like u, then might as well dun go in relationship... even if she accepts u, but she dun like or love u, then wat for?

finally, enjoy ur sec sch life with girls... they can be angelic at times, but demonic sometimes too... 

 

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IA

lol... why all focus on my action...

u all no tips ma?

 

well to me clinging onto arm is nothing... holding on to hand is a lot of thing...

actually hor the standing of didi maybe is wan pee, maybe see u then didi stand means u too scary need go pee..

but ok la... i think we are just close friends since we both are lacking good friends... heehee :)

 

IA

just asking if there is any obvious signal of love we can see or feel?

since this is like quite related to couple relationship, i shall put in AA since many are troubled by relationships...

i shall start the ball rolling then, a girl start to open up to u then talk a lot bout their pasttime and background and how she feel and her daily interesting things, is there any special meanings?

pls dun say i think too much, just curious.. no feeling for this girl..^^

also pls refrain from quarelling or flaming...

 

Thanks
IA

hey hey!!

somehow i like u all replies... but same time dun like it...

i dun like the fact IF my alpabets friends like her... well which is very probably not... since they are frank..

o ya btw.. she has started to avoid physical contact with other guys.. she became dam sensitive bout being touched.. however, i touch her like nothing big... touch as in not sensitive parts la...

o ya btw i am concealing my style here to prevent from friends reading my post!! i keep thinking how to write in a more different way lol...

 

but the part i like is, " I am too young to go in relationships", cuz is like... my studies has quite a room for improvement, further more, i am running a slimming down activity recently... so i dun have much time for these...

however, as u all said that she likes my companion, i like her companion too, cuz its like she talk more maturely than any other ppl... how i hope i can just sit down and chat about anything... feel so good for chatting with her and studying with her...

o ya, just for ur info, i am also not quite ready for a relationship, also i wanna study than just wanna taste how a relationship feels like, also also, i have bad looks compared to her, so i dun wan like, lai4 ha1 ma4 chi1 tian1 er2 rou4...

 

anyway, THANKS FOR UR REPLIES... feels so good after whining it out and hearing ur opinions... hope to see more comments and opinions.. best is with some tips..

 

THANK LOTS
IA

we very close friend so keep seeing each other de handphone... then my friend like to see my inbox.. i also dun mind so i let them see... then they see wah i sms so much everyday... so thats why...

 

ya purpledragon.. u so right... i keep that in mind thx...

after all i find parn answer most suited to me... however i put all of u all advice in my mind.. thx!

jojo... lol thx for that.. seems like so logical yet i left it aside... thx for the remind ^^

 

i go sch le.. reply later..

IA

 

ah i go sleep 1st.. so i reply much later... :)

ok la... the feeling is strong...

but think logically, i focus on studies better... hanor i jealous also can do nothing.. thats why whining here... HOW I HOPE I DUN LIKE A!!!!!!!

btw B,C,D and E are all loyal friends... they confirm choose me if it is between A and me.. cuz we are real buddies.. real good friends...

 

but u see ar, when they play hor, not normal one... they bang here bang there... sometimes i see... wah shoulder touch boobs she still laughing happily... makes me wanna bash both of them up... argh!!!!!

 

btw how to date her out one on one... with just the status of A FRIEND!!  sorry ar.. i got no experience on this kind of stuff... so teach me! thanks!

btw i noe how to deal with itchyarmpits ^^, well itchyarmpit not a prob la... but when u exercise more, and drink more water, the itch will gone... this applies to other parts of body other than armpits too... for me it works..

 

Thanks
IA

haha.. i dunno if i would put this in whinehouse, chit chat or in AA forum best... but since AA forum has better replies, i guess i will put here...

 

this is how it goes... i am a boy, I like A, and i dunno if A like me.

A, B, C, D and E are my close friends, we are very close to each other...

however, A appears to be the only girl in our clique, A is also very sociable...

as u see ar, i in sec sch la, i wanna concentrate on studies and CCA instead of this kind of love stuffs.... therefore i didnt confess, another 2 factors is that i not good looking and i dunno if she like me...

 

we sms each other alot, more than A to any other ppl, we are in the same class, but B, C, D and E not same class as us... we are also often teased as steads, or like couple... she always like denied it with a jokingly attack posture,

 

however, cuz of A sociable characteristics, and B,C,D and E playful characteristics, they like to play with each other too, well of cuz they play with each other since we are all close and good friends... however that puts a sour feeling in my heart, or should i say jealous...

 

also, i seldom get angry and is always smiling... therefore i dun wan to put up a sian face as i wanna avoid explanation for my sulky face... but when i see they all playing like so close... even if to a closeness level of beyond close friends, i can only FORCE myself to smile...

 

*sigh**sigh*, but i like this feeling of liking this girl, be it infatuation or crush or wat u say love... it does not matter as i dun intend to go in relationship... so far i didnt done anything to stop them playing with each other...

 

i just wanna seek your opinions... sorry if i reply dam late cuz kind of busy nowadays...

wat u all gonna do if u were me?

i always say " hello sexy" to the female friends... some will like ignore the word sexy or some might play along with u, some might even get shy...

 

for the not so close ones but at least got talk b4, just say hi, maybe asking like why u here? or why u keep staring at me? or got see anything different on me? or wow that slipper of urs new ar?

 

for the hi-bye friend, just say hi, then say bye.

 

 

i am a boy, but i think observing if they are any different from usual will be good. also, as mentioned b4, complimenting on them, especially looks, are good.

 

yeah, dun be shy to compliment them, however be sincere...

 

just be yourself will do to continue the conversation, or add some humour would be good... if u act as a different personality, u will feel uncomfortable...

 

 

Cheers
IA

Originally posted by purpledragon84:

lol.. itchy =/= smelly la.. LOL.. he say b4 liao.. when he creating the nick his armpit was itchy LOL.. muz have been the only thing on his mind at that point in time..

anyway IA.. if u want girls to notice u, u must at least show that u are of a standard, going ard dropping hints will just make them take u less seriously and den u lose points..

lol good memory eh?

 

hmm thx for the good tips...

at first glace on ur words, i feel like saying eh i dun care bout image.

but on the second thought, nono i am like hmm... care bout image but like to joke at same time...

anyway i will put that tip in my head... thanks

 

IA

hmm maybe a few of u got the wrong idea...

i dun like anyone... and i hope no one like me ba..

is like funny la.. like wat zark say...

summore being myself is like to say this kind of things de... hmm i dun like to be pretentious... the feeling sux...

 

but nvm la... they still enjoy being with me... maybe my inner beauty too attractive le..

thx for opinions tho ^^

i not itchy ^^

 

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IA

ok la not really a problem la but i really wanna seek good opinions on this

 

this is how it goes... 1st of all, i am totally not good looking, well i emphasized on TOTALLY, and i like to like drop hints that i like this girl or that girl... somehow my hints are quite obvious that it is fake, which really is fake hints, then like this girl tot i like her... she is kinda a good friend that i dun wanna lose... she like got A LITTLE BIT ONLY distant me lidat...

hmm but this somehow had become my habbit... so ur opinions?

 

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IA

Originally posted by lenore:

horoscope readings say that those under the gemini sign are flirts and fall in love easily. so i guess that's why sebo say shld be careful. i'm not sure for aquarius though.

but hor libra is flirtatious....

 

go to www.lilycat.net to find out more bout horoscope

lol i always wink to a girl and look into their eye...

 

wink to like say lesser things.... cuz winking can mean a lot of things...

 

look into their eyes means proper manner when having conversation...

 

i treat ur electricfying thing as winking and looking into eye..

 

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IA

i at least 10 hours then enough... but usually only 8 hours...

 

best is 11 hours for me....

 

i sleep too less cannot work too well...

 

 

eh i didnt bothered to read the whole thread...

 

basically here are my tips for losing weight...

 

1) even if u dun like to jog, force urself to jog...

2) jog until u feel very very warm up

3) walk for 40 to 50 mins

4) repeat step 1 to 3 every morning BEFORE u eat

5) eat proper meals.. from 3 meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) break to 6 meals per day

6) each meal is around half of ur breakfast (or lunch or dinner)

7) eat more during the day, eat less during the night..

8) DUN PLAY SO MUCH COMPUTER!!!! even if u have to play, every hour do something like 10-15 sit ups each set of around 3 set per hour...

 

urmm if u can follow these all 8 points exactly u will slim down within half a year, for me...

i can only stand this like 2 week, and guess wat, 2 week slim down 8kg...

 

GOOD LUCK!!

IA

lol.... today i go out with 3 girl... foursome?

no la no special thoughts... just thinking that it might be funny to have special meaning....

summore my 1st time go out with girl confirm will think more de ma...

 

eh ItchyArmpit still young leh...

young kids tends to think more into everything ma... since we dunno so many things and is curious about it...

 

heehee thx for reply tho...

 

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lol...

thx for reply tho...

 

i also dunno wat to say.. feel like laughing now..

 

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lol... nothing better to do ma...

curious heehee..

 

not only that matter la... tell me other action that girls can do to mean things...

 

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hey all...

 

was thinking that if girls do any action, do they mean anything?

for example, they wink at u, stare into ur eye for nothing...

 

one thing that i wanna clarify is lidat..

i was organising a group study with this girl A

then all the ppl cannot turn up...

A sms " i dun mind if we go out alone"

 

lol... i also dun mean anything for opening this thread...

but did she mean anything just by saying that?

 

then pls reply if u noe that girls do this action means wat...

 

just curious only... btw dun put that kind of "cold" reply...

 

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