something really bad happened to us ytd..

i thought through.. and decided to leave her to find her own happiness..dont wanna hurt her anymore.. so i sent a good bye msg..

moments later.. i went to her blog.. the blog title was "her and the guy's name fairyland thingy" first look, i got angry..

i thought he was the reason why we broke up.. and shes with him now.. so i called her up.. knowing that hours ago she just hang up my phone telling me not to talk about the past.. called her for like 10+ times before she answer.. and she didn't even know about the blog title..she told me its her friends change de.. and yes few of her friends got her acc..i dono why she give them.. she say they want to play mah..so she let them lor..sigh.. and now they are invading her privacy..

i misunderstood her.. and made her angry again.. she msg me ask me for peace.. i'm such a sucker.. when she needed me.. i added on to her problems..

sigh.. i really want to be there for her now.. but shes just pissed with me.. ignoring me totally..

hai..

i do..

i sent her a msg..saying good bye. and don't wish to hurt her anymore..

with all my nonsense that irritates her..

i have no idea what might happen..

maybe its gone le..

understood.. haha.. you know.. sometimes.. you know what is right to do.. just that.. you don’t want to do it.. like giving up.. but its time..

got you.. thanks =))

i finally understood what kind of hell she went through when she was with me..

she loved me dearly..
i doubt her badly..

guys.. hurting her is my greatest regret.. i dont wanna lose her..

tell me how can i get another chance from her??

got your point..i’m trying my best already..

i guess i really hurt her alot..

she told me over the phone just now..that everytime she talks about me with her friend she'll feel sad..

sighh..i really don't wanna hurt her anymore..but at the same time don't wish to lose her too..

thanks alot.. i read all of it.. i admit that im indeed a very impatient guy.. and always spoil things myself due to that..

will learn from it..seriously..

thanks for the advice

Originally posted by d0ug:

but problems started. i wasn't able to take her blog having more of other boys than me. nearly every post has another guy's name. but i know she didn't love him..he was just a friend. but i was just jealous.
and this became one of the biggest problem..

updates during the weekends..

i found out that that guy she always mention likes her..and is chasing her..cause his female friend who is also from the same class as both of them has been making fun of them. she sent comments to him over friendster those glittering pictures showing a heart with both their names.. but the thing is, my love can't view those pictures..and she didnt know..i called her and asked..she was shocked and said she wont be with him even if he confess..he is just a normal friend to her..and admitted that i was right all along saying that guy was interested in her..

to me..its like the guy just acts like shes already his stead..letting ppl know that they seemed to be together..his friendster acc..only has pictures of idols and 1 picture of her..and there was a comment left by my love to him..asking, why is the pic there?? put pics of yourself pls..something like that..

anyways..she told me she had been thinking about what i said..to give me another chance..but when i asked again this morning..it was the same, 'don't waste your time le' ...

thanks for reading

noted all of your points.. thanks for all the advices and comments, and i'm 17 this year

thanks for the advices.. i know i’m gonna leave her alone for now.. shes a girl who needs alot of timeeeee

Originally posted by MiX Metal:

Give her time and space to think it through, Don't rush her into making a decision if you do that it might be as you've not change at all and she may think that all those that you've written is jus something that you do to get her back and you don't mean really mean any of it.

understood..i guess thats the most i can do now..

what i know is..she took quite long to make this decision..and cried over it several times..but i didnt know it at that time cause we agreed to give each other some time to think of what we did and our mistakes and change them..i never knew that breaking up was the thing in her mind..

i get what you mean..but..

sigh..

Originally posted by Detached:
A conversation between a wise friend and I sometime back when I was down and out, I'd share with you.

persona, will you choose between yesterday or tomorrow?
tomorrow.
the past is past.
the future is in our hands.
talk about regrets, do you harbour any?
is carefreeness your online persona? how can one free himself so easily of sentimental recollections, regrets and just move on to the future?
teach me, rabbi. I am keen to be taught.
[b] everyone has regrets. but what's the point of crying over spilt milk? the best use of the past is the lessons it teaches us for the next lap of our life.
[/b]

appreciated.

i really hope so..

and ytd night after our phone call, i was telling her to hang on to our relationship once more.. like how we did last time..

until she ignore me..but she didn't block me in msn..so i continued typing..

was telling her everything she told me..and everything i thought of..and my changes too..

after 1 hour+ of self typing she replied read all of them..and gtg slp and went off..i sent her a last msg asking her to hang on and think about giving me a chance..and that i will put those words into action..

what can i do now?? leave her to think?

i will learn.. really appreciate all of your time

thanks to all =))

i know what i did wrong and spoilt the relationship..i've changed too..

but isnt there any way i can save this relationship??

thanks for reading or clicking on this thread in advance =))

this story is about me and this girl..

that night, i asked her if she could call me and talk on the phone for the first time. she replied, 'must i call?'. i was rather disappointed. and said, 'it's your wish'. moments later, i received her call. and my life started to change.

i was having a meaningless life 'flirting' with girls before we started talking on the phone. i thought my life couldn't be any better, with almost every night on the phone, with different girls. then it was her, who changed me unknowingly.

below is the story..

i found this girl, by the name, B. she was hurt when i first met her..she wasn't able to forget the guy she liked for 4 years..though they were never together..and after listening to bits and pieces of her story, i decided to be there for her, until she is happy again. minor changes start to happen, without noticing, she became the girl i talk to almost every night, and replaced all my other acquaintances.

things got closer between us, she couldn't sleep without my smses at 2am each day, she felt something missing without my call every night, and was able to give up her time talking to other friends of her's. i didn't tell her this before, but i was touched, and fell in love with her.

few months later, after our poly life started, during the first week, we sms each other like crazy everyday. i remember just 1 bus trip to my school, we could msg up till 20times each. yes i had in mind the cost of the bill, but it was a happy moment for both of us. soon, we met each other up after school.

the magical week, i asked to meet her at xx shopping centre after school. she told me she was gonna pick up something from there for her sis, and i offered to accompany her. i didn't tell her this too, many times, that night, and the 2 following nights we met, i wanted to hold her hand. but i know i'm not allowed to. i asked her out again on the same week, friday. this time we went vivo, met up my brother and his gf. many people went between us when walking, how i wished i could hold her hand and walk together. she never knew..

i know i left her a good moment that night. and she asked me out the following week, offering to treat me dinner for my birthday. i was afraid at first, cause no girls asked me out before. i had no idea how to react, and gave her a feeling that i don't wanna go, but it's not true, i just don't know how to face her. she asked me if i was free on monday, and said she wanted to treat me dinner. i was wondering if i should go, and she told me something, that i will never forget in my life. 'if you're not free on monday, we shall go on tuesday. if you're still not free, i'll wait for you to be free.". something like this..the words are rephrase cause i couldn't remember word by word. so, we met. nothing much did happen that night at vivo. but soon after, i met her on the same week and we went vivo again. but this time, we spent most of the time at the balcony facing sentosa. i decided to make this the day, and tried hinting her on the bus to vivo, and at the balcony. if only she can remember, i put my hand on her lap, hinting her to hold mine. she didn't compromise, i thought that she didn't feel the same as i did. i remember this period, i lied down on the ground, and started looking at the stars. i was rather tired and thinking if i should really hold her hand today. and at that very moment, her hand came over to me and pulled me up. and i knew, i must hold it now.

but something bad happened straight after. we were holding each other's hands tightly even when we are sitting on the bus. i felt that she didn't wanna let me go, so was i. but i told her something, that i wasn't ready. i was such a failure since primary school days. never succeeded before each time i chased a girl. i wasn't ready cause all these years, i've never been accepted. was really relieved that she wasn't angry.

and that's how we got together.

at the start, we met around 3 times per week, having a good time each outing. and we went ahead to kissing few days after we got together. our love was strong then..

but problems started. i wasn't able to take her blog having more of other boys than me. nearly every post has another guy's name. but i know she didn't love him..he was just a friend. but i was just jealous.
and this became one of the biggest problem.. i regretted for nagging about this problem time and time again which made her feel sick and tired of it..the outcome is always argument between us.

now that i think of it, i should have given her more time..the fact that she said she will change her blog and stuff for me when we are stable..

soon, our 1 month anniversary came. i was so so sooooooo excited over the weekends. was asking my friends what their bf do for them during their anniversary. some tell me to buy her flowers. but ... i was having financial difficulties at that time.. and i lied to her, saying that i didn't have the time. felt really really sorry..i'm such a useless boy. can't even buy FEW STALKS of roses for her during our first anniversary..she even paid for our movie..

more problems came in between us after that.. mainly cause i still didn't stop my nonsense.. and made her sick and tired of the arguments..i don't blame her for that..but i'm really really hurt that even after i changed, she didn't give me the love i've always wanted..she didn't stop showing disinterest with me..she didn't show me love at all..but she used to love me more than i did..

that day in school, i heard, we can leave at 10am but there is a course for us at 4 to 5.30pm..i was fighting inside my mind..whether i should send her home after school..and i made up my mind to after that. gave her a call..and asked that question..i didn't know that she will actually scream at me and insisted on going home herself..she didn't used to show me this kind of treatments..i believe its my nonsense that changed her..

recently, i left her alone to think through, what i have done for her and what she gave me in return.. but turns out that she had been thinking whether we should still be together..i feel like a moron digging my own grave..

she took quite a long time to make up her mind to end our relationship..

guys..my question is, how can i get another chance from her? i need advices if possible..i feel that shes a girl who needs alot of time..need advices .. i don't wish to lose her..

thanks for reading =)

thanks for reading or clicking on this thread in advance =))

this story is about me and this girl..

that night, i asked her if she could call me and talk on the phone for the first time. she replied, 'must i call?'. i was rather disappointed. and said, 'it's your wish'. moments later, i received her call. and my life started to change.

i was having a meaningless life 'flirting' with girls before we started talking on the phone. i thought my life couldn't be any better, with almost every night on the phone, with different girls. then it was her, who changed me unknowingly.

below is the story..

i found this girl, by the name, B. she was hurt when i first met her..she wasn't able to forget the guy she liked for 4 years..though they were never together..and after listening to bits and pieces of her story, i decided to be there for her, until she is happy again. minor changes start to happen, without noticing, she became the girl i talk to almost every night, and replaced all my other acquaintances.

things got closer between us, she couldn't sleep without my smses at 2am each day, she felt something missing without my call every night, and was able to give up her time talking to other friends of her's. i didn't tell her this before, but i was touched, and fell in love with her.

few months later, after our poly life started, during the first week, we sms each other like crazy everyday. i remember just 1 bus trip to my school, we could msg up till 20times each. yes i had in mind the cost of the bill, but it was a happy moment for both of us. soon, we met each other up after school.

the magical week, i asked to meet her at xx shopping centre after school. she told me she was gonna pick up something from there for her sis, and i offered to accompany her. i didn't tell her this too, many times, that night, and the 2 following nights we met, i wanted to hold her hand. but i know i'm not allowed to. i asked her out again on the same week, friday. this time we went vivo, met up my brother and his gf. many people went between us when walking, how i wished i could hold her hand and walk together. she never knew..

i know i left her a good moment that night. and she asked me out the following week, offering to treat me dinner for my birthday. i was afraid at first, cause no girls asked me out before. i had no idea how to react, and gave her a feeling that i don't wanna go, but it's not true, i just don't know how to face her. she asked me if i was free on monday, and said she wanted to treat me dinner. i was wondering if i should go, and she told me something, that i will never forget in my life. 'if you're not free on monday, we shall go on tuesday. if you're still not free, i'll wait for you to be free.". something like this..the words are rephrase cause i couldn't remember word by word. so, we met. nothing much did happen that night at vivo. but soon after, i met her on the same week and we went vivo again. but this time, we spent most of the time at the balcony facing sentosa. i decided to make this the day, and tried hinting her on the bus to vivo, and at the balcony. if only she can remember, i put my hand on her lap, hinting her to hold mine. she didn't compromise, i thought that she didn't feel the same as i did. i remember this period, i lied down on the ground, and started looking at the stars. i was rather tired and thinking if i should really hold her hand today. and at that very moment, her hand came over to me and pulled me up. and i knew, i must hold it now.

but something bad happened straight after. we were holding each other's hands tightly even when we are sitting on the bus. i felt that she didn't wanna let me go, so was i. but i told her something, that i wasn't ready. i was such a failure since primary school days. never succeeded before each time i chased a girl. i wasn't ready cause all these years, i've never been accepted. was really relieved that she wasn't angry.

and that's how we got together.

at the start, we met around 3 times per week, having a good time each outing. and we went ahead to kissing few days after we got together. our love was strong then..

but problems started. i wasn't able to take her blog having more of other boys than me. nearly every post has another guy's name. but i know she didn't love him..he was just a friend. but i was just jealous.
and this became one of the biggest problem.. i regretted for nagging about this problem time and time again which made her feel sick and tired of it..the outcome is always argument between us.

now that i think of it, i should have given her more time..the fact that she said she will change her blog and stuff for me when we are stable..

soon, our 1 month anniversary came. i was so so sooooooo excited over the weekends. was asking my friends what their bf do for them during their anniversary. some tell me to buy her flowers. but ... i was having financial difficulties at that time.. and i lied to her, saying that i didn't have the time. felt really really sorry..i'm such a useless boy. can't even buy FEW STALKS of roses for her during our first anniversary..she even paid for our movie..

more problems came in between us after that.. mainly cause i still didn't stop my nonsense.. and made her sick and tired of the arguments..i don't blame her for that..but i'm really really hurt that even after i changed, she didn't give me the love i've always wanted..she didn't stop showing disinterest with me..she didn't show me love at all..but she used to love me more than i did..

that day in school, i heard, we can leave at 10am but there is a course for us at 4 to 5.30pm..i was fighting inside my mind..whether i should send her home after school..and i made up my mind to after that. gave her a call..and asked that question..i didn't know that she will actually scream at me and insisted on going home herself..she didn't used to show me this kind of treatments..i believe its my nonsense that changed her..

recently, i left her alone to think through, what i have done for her and what she gave me in return.. but turns out that she had been thinking whether we should still be together..i feel like a moron digging my own grave..

guys..my question is, how can i make us go back to how we used to be?? i need advices if possible..i feel that she wasn't ready for a relationship with me cause of her past..need advices .. i don't wish to lose her..

thanks for reading =))

Originally posted by FireIce:

alotta cute xiao didis

you must have seen me

why not move away from the place?

some entertainment