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hi all,
I just know a guy. But i scared that he is just leading me on. He is incredibly nice to me, dates me out, maintains eye contact when is chatting with me and confide and divulge many secrets to me. He teases me at times also.
But he has never made the move on me yet.However, he sent me sms like everyday and will ask me stuff like how am i doing etc. I do not know if he takes me as a friend or has some romantic interest in me.
The most perculiar thing is that he asked me for my opinions when he is shopping for apparel and stuff. He put on the shirt and asked me how does he looks in it etc... I wonder why does he do that? He also tell me about his work problems.. However, he rarely asks about my private life. He will just reveal everything about himself to me without me having to ask him about it.
I admit I am developing feelings for him as he is a very nice,sweet and gentlemanly guy.What should i do now? Does he really have some kind of romantic interest in me or just take me as a friend? In the past, i had experiences when a guy would date me out as a friend, sent me the wrong signals and then break the news that he only sees me as a friend when i confessed to me. It would be very disappointing and double blow to me if he likes some gals and only dates me out as a friend. I have been in the friend zone in the past.
Please help. I dont wanna be hurt again
Edited by bearie000 24 Aug `08, 8:26PM
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all i can say...he is a downright jerk..No doubt about it..He is worse than those jerks or baddies that you see on chinese drama shows..
if the girl has money, he con both the money and body
if the girl is poor, he con the body
if the girl is poor but willing to serve him, he gets the body and a free maid
He is a BIG show-off ,likes to flaunt his beautiful gfs etc in front of his guy friends.
I BET A DOG IS BETTER THAN HIM!He makes sure he doesnt get himself hurt in the process and waste no money in getting the girls to bed....unlike others who even need to invest a lot of money to get the girls to bed
Edited by bearie000 20 Jul `07, 8:44AM
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:not the same person and you have been cheated twice???!!! maybe the prob is with you girl... you are unconsciously attracted to this type of men issit?
nothing happened between me and the 2nd guy and..i broke up with the 2nd guy...
this was the first.. and i felt the bitterness in my heart till today...
im afraid to love now...
Edited by bearie000 19 Jul `07, 1:40PM
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Originally posted by oldkid:This story is rather interesting to read but not to heed or even pay attention too. It's rather nice, exactly like an urban legend, no firm evidence, no one to relate the story to, it's always "my fren's fren" or "my fren". Exposing him will leave you in trouble or unable to expose him will leave you in more trouble? And suddenly this jerk vanished without a trace, no pic, no name, no contact. IMHO, I think this jerk doesn't even exist at all. Nice story bearie000.
But then you did a good thing to remind women out there that there are men capable of heindous deeds just for sex. Women by far does the same thing, not for sex, but for a comfortable life and for fame.VERY NICE TAKE HERE.. your perspective of it as urban legend.i dont have to convince you. Imagine putting someone's name down is tantamount to defamation. You are too sceptical for your own good.im glad you are not a girl if not you long be one of his victims. That explains why jerks get away time and time again. if a person has the intention to cheat, he wouldnt be leaving any traces of himself on the net in fear of appraisal ! you not born yesterday right?
Edited by bearie000 19 Jul `07, 1:30PM
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Originally posted by Uncertain:lol... power hahaha...
Give me the friendster link leh... i want to c the face of the mighty one....
anyway, i have read a recent thread of urs that says u are being cheated by a guy... dun tell me is him hor.... hahano...not the same person...that person was better than this
THIS IS A CHEAPSKATE ANIMAL LA
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and guess what...just when i wanted to "browse" his friendster..
I REALISED HE CHANGED HIS FRIENDSTER EMAIL..PERHAPS,...HE HAS JUST CONNED ANOTHER GIRL AND WANTED TO ESCAPE FROM HER CLUTCHES... SO CHANGE HIS EMAIL...
HE EVEN brought a new car, change a new phone line..he is a serial love cheat..each time he cheats a girl and the girl is out to get back at him, he goes running.....! CHEAPSKATE
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Originally posted by zeny:Wow I believe this is a true story, but I got a few points I would like to ask.
1) He does not pay and he expect the gals to pay. If the gal is paying for him willingly and knowing he is a jerk. Whose fault is it?
2) The gals can chose not to sleep with him but they did so whose fault is it?
He did not use a knife or a gun to force them into bed rite?
3) The girls are treat like dirt and they still stick to him, so whose fault is it?
The big moral of the story is if you meet this type of jerk and you still want to stick to him without thinking about the future, whose fault is it?
You can only let others know about him, but they are the ones who willingly go to him and sleep with him. As long is not force even the law cannot not do anything about it.YUP..NO girls in the right mind will subject herself to this maltreatment.YOU know what the guy said, HE SAID you should be treated this way because you dont have many qualities and you are not attractive .Physically attractive girls are not treated this way. You deserved it. Imagine, being made use and being insulted from head to toe !!!!!!!! he used different methods to cheat different girls!
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Originally posted by oldkid:Wah lau, post already like no post, say already as good as no saying. Why give hints on who this guy is leh? Bearie000, if it is someone you know or someone who had fallen victim to such jerk then you must provide some credibilities to what you had claimed. This is macham like spreading some urban legend. What you had described seems like most or some of the guys in S'pore. There are SO MANY IT professional here and in S'pore. There are SOME MANY guys who likes to bed women after women. Otherwise, this is just another bla bla bla.
You will need to provide name, pictures or even contact numbers of this so called "Jerk" so we will know he's not fabricated. Don't plant fear and distrust in the minds of people.
At least provide a name. Even a "Tan Ah Kow" would be better than "someone you know!" crap.
I get what you mean ! If i say the full name, im be in trouble!
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he is real clever as he doesnt cheat underage girls....and waste zero cents into wooing girls
ppl around him think that he is a decent guy when you know him personally , he sucks to the core!!!!!i doubt he dares to touch girls from his job, cos he will lose his job if scandal gets in the way.
he is aloof and conceited!Edited by bearie000 19 Jul `07, 11:27AM
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Topic Topic Starter Replies Views Last Post Forum
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10:31 AM Chit Chat
folder icon Want to buy a unique car! $50k cash available! [page: 1, 2, 3, 4] kiss2994 4685 23 April 2007
06:15 PM Cars
folder icon Harrier/RX330/Estima Car cover kiss291 218 14 April 2007
05:00 PM Cars
folder icon caught in BJ at Jurong point [page: 1, 2, 3, 4] kiss2980 7846 12 April 2007
09:01 AM Bar
folder icon Singtel top-up card number kiss2915 680 23 November 2006
04:22 PM Bar
folder icon I need new friends. [page: 1, 2, 3] kiss2953 12334 25 October 2006
09:05 PM sgGirls.com
folder icon Scrambler New Rims for sale kiss290 149 08 April 2004
08:00 PM Race Track
He can always change his nick... and kiss29 please come and defend yourself...please dont accuse an innocent man LIKE KISS29.....dont mislead others ! they should pay close attention to the hints that are directed to the JERK
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