Me and my bf didn't engage officially. His parents and mine got together and talked about our wedding for next year. So my finger no engagement ring. To me it's not important and the engagement procession isn't relevant to us both. But he already bought our wedding rings.

Our parents has already picked a date for our ROM for next year where we will exchange our vows and rings. A week before our ROM we will go for our photo shoot. After two months of our ROM we will hold our traditional ceremony. Wedding dinner will be on the same day of the traditional ceremony. Then two days later we fly off for our honeymoon. Very fast arrangement and simple. Don't want to separate traditional ceremony one day and then wedding dinner another day. Very 'ma fan'. If both can have our ways, we would love to photoshoot, ROM, tea ceremoney and wedding dinner all in one day but we know it's impossible since our parents want to do things properly as they say

The world is getting weirder and weirder to live on. What will they do next? Perhaps a dolphin or a whale will give birth to human because some man impregnated them while swimming in the ocean???

Originally posted by drawer:

Whether Singapore has the world best healthcare system or not i dont know,although i seriously doubt that.But one thing i do know is that our healthcare cost are damn high,our healthcare system dont care about poor ppl.

Like some forumers say here,you can die in Singapore,but cant fall sick in here.

I remembered few years ago I accompanied my mom to the poly clinic in Y_____ and witnessed a man in his late forties (I think not good in gauging agelah) begging and apologizing to the social worker and the counter cashier for having no money to pay for the medical checkup and the medicine which he clutched in his hands and refuse to let go.

This was roughly what the conversation went like :-

Sick man : 'Sorry miss, I don't have money. Can help or not?

Social worker : Mr. So-so we cannot allow you to go without paying for the service rendered. No matter how you need to pay something.

Counter cashier mumbled under her breath but loud enough for everyone within their vicinity to hear : 'No money don't come see doctor loh'

Sick man : But Miss, I really don't have money at all. And I really need the medicine. Can we arrange something like when I got money I come back to pay you?

Social worker very loud : 'Aiyah Mr. So-so, how can we do that? If everyone is like you then we will get very 'ma fan'. Why don't you go talk to your GRC MPs. You get them to help you then you come back and we will release the medicine. For now we don't charge you even for the consultation fees since you said you really have no money.'

 

After that I don't know what happen liao since my mom's number were called and we went in to the consultation room. I was like thinking ' Aiyoh people no money so poor thing already why some more drop the rock into the well to seal his fate'. Talk so loud as if other patients cannot hear. I mean it was like trying to embarrass the poor man. Already people so cham liao. And moreover it was really uncalled for that the counter cashier made such a nasty remark. If the man got money wouldn't you think he would try to embarrass himself publicly by begging? And this is poly clinic! Poly clinic!

 

P/s Got advice cannot name places or else jialat jialat so need to edit here

 

Originally posted by FocusPoint:

I don't know nowadays what is the definition of love for the young people but seems to me what you are experiencing is not really love andI suspect neither is she. You're both actually in love with love the act itself. No one who is sensible enough will give way until like your case. You're just spoiling her. Perhaps deep down you feel you are more inferior to her or beneath her and feels very lucky that among all the guys she have met she chose you to be her boyfriend. So it was just natural of you to want to hang on to her becase you feel that if she hasn't chosen you, you would have still been alone. That! is not love. That! is just being feeling wanted and belonged like 'Thank God, someone finally take me. I'm not unsaleable anymore!'

She, on the other hand may or may not realize it that subconsciously she can wrap you around her fingers but onething for sure is she certainly knows how to take full advantage of your weak personality to 'bully' you into submission.

Right now you may feel that without her you will be miserable and even take on the blames that you were really at 'fault' here for making her angry because of fear of losing her but how about in the long run? You are still what I call in the phase of 'love' and that is why you are able to put up with her crap but as I said for long can you tolerate such irrational behavior

Young man, we are all human beings with emotions and we continue to change as we aged and grow. As your thinking get more mature and as you meet more and more people especially the opposite sex you will start to compare them to your girlfriend. You may not do it consciously but it will catch you out of the blue. Believe me in that split second you will be shock in thinking 'Why did such a thought occur?' and in that split second you will began to waver in your feelings for her. You will question yourself of your so-called love for her.

Ok, maybe just maybe you truly truly love her for young people nowadays love to fantasize about perfect love that is "If I love her that much I will put up with whatever she dish out to me. I will love her unconditionally no matter how unreasonable she is" But don't you think you are over spoiling her and encouraging her to bully you? In that sense you are really the one at fault for encouraging her to develop such behaviour.

Your girlfriend behavior is no different from that of a child. She knows she can get away with murder so to speak if she throws a tantrum if you do not accede to her whims and fancy. She has you tightly twirl around her little finger. She knows she is very important to you thus she will not hesitate to openly show you her tantrum.

It may still be fine if she do it in private with you but if you let her continue and 'encourage' her in such behaviour I won't be surprise if she will do it openly to you right in front of your friends, colleagues and even relatives and families.

Anyway if you really think you really love her that much and was thinking of spending the rest of your life with her I think you should make some changes. Help her to be a better person to treat you better. Don't let her walk all over you and seriously review this relationship if it is worth your effort. Think whether you are the one that is actually at fault here for encouraging such behaviour from her and if yes try to change it, you don't want to overspoil her until where one day you cannot take it anymore only to regret about your action which by that time might be a little late as both of you may have gotten married or even worse with kids.

Do think carefully.

Good luck!

Aiyoh! Unker FP, why so long-winded one???

 

So simple here. The guy is a doormat and the gf is a btich. One like to be abused the other one like to do the abusing. They are really 'tien shen yi dui'. It's good they found each other, less one doormat and less one bitch to harm others.

Unker Poh, just wanna know are you residing in Singapore because you very garang leh. I salute you for so daringly cursing LKY and his family on line. No, no, I'm not being sacarstic. Really wanna know. Peace ok, peace if not you think I am suaning you

But actually I think it's quite fun leh to video the ugly side of Singaporean since everyone like to point fingers at one another or gossips behind one's back but never actually dare to put it down in words or video here. So, it is a golden opportunity to showcase our talent here. Moreover got paid some more. So, I say we go for it

IN TOW LAH! What in toll?!!! Unless they oso need to pay ERP fees to come up to ren jian to see you. In that case hor you better burned more hell money for them or else next time they cannot come up to see you again as no more money to pay 'toll fees'!

Originally posted by mistyblue:

Some people are saying that the newwater mixed into our tap water is cauing the current spade of young people to die from heart issues because there are compounds in the new water that cannot be removed and are causing heart issues.  No sure true or not but even if its true, we will never know as our media is state controlled mah.

Oil price shooting up again ... Sigh. When will this end.

This brought to mind of Erin Brokovich who persistently dug and dug and the truth came out. But in Singapore hor, no one as brave as Erin leh

Aiyoyo, why this Anwar like to play with asshole one? No wonder he was nicknamed Asshole Bandit

This is really daylight robbery!

Anyway you can report them to CASE for unscrupulous business tactic as their menu is without price list which is actually an offence itself.

Originally posted by Karma88:

My house is about 400 - 500

sad .

400 - 500??? Why so high??? What you use? And how many peeps staying in the house???

His name so funny Tan Lead Shake...what is he trying to lead to shake?

Yeah, another favourite past times for HDB married aunties is dry water swimming - playing mahjong. Just invite three friends over and can play liao. On top of that can exchange gossips somemore. Time sure to pass very fast one

Originally posted by the_fallen:

if there's anybody who dun wanna get a degree for the seek of working..

 

than why don't consider doing their own business or find other means of survival skills?

 

at least i dun think i'll take degree..for the next few yrs..since i got my method to earn money..

But to start a business need start up funds. No initial capital how to get a business going. Okilah, I'm assuming you are talking about bricks and mortar business. Not internet. But even internet business still need some money like getting somebody to design a website for you right?

...bill now that the tariff is rising and rising like the hot temperature today?

There are four of us in the household and our monthly average PUB bill is $120.00 - $150.00.

How my family help cut down PUB bill.

1) Only use air-con at night with timer on. Day time open door big big let in natural wind

2) Collect used water from washing machine to flush toilet and wipe floor.

3) Used super save energy saving light bulb no orange lighting.

Only thing can't cut down is computer and TV. On almost full day eeek!

 

So come on all share tips here how all of you save on bills.

Slapping a three weeks jail term and $1,500 fine in cash is just too light a sentence for rich bitch like them. They should also be made to serve in the community service as well like cleaning hawkers' centre tables and toilets and see if they can do the job well. If not they should be slapped even harsher sentence till they learn their lessons.

Just look at the bitch's face. Does not even show any remorse. When I see her on the road, I will curse at her for sure. Kannineh!

"Singapore petrol is still the cheapest in the world?" What is TS taking?! I oso want some to get disllusional so I can hide behind reality too

Originally posted by parn:

delores, having read all those thoughts that you have written and expressed in here, I feel that I must tell you that you are really a loser if those are really your honest confession.

If you love your children, you wouldn't be feeling like this. Do you even love your children? Were they ever a liability to you?

You're already a married women, and you should start thinking and behaving like one. The reason why you are feeling this way is because deep inside yourself, you don't really agree to this marriage. You wasn't prepared for all this, mentality-wise and responsibility-wise.

Do you know the reason why Mothers are so greatly revered and honoured upon?

IT's because the moment they made up their mind to be a Mother, they understands  the reason for self-sacrifice for the sake of their children and accept the life-time responsiblity of serving their children.

IF your husband stays at home and stop fucking around with other females, would that solve your problem? How would that has anything to do with what is really causing you the intolerable grief you are feeling right now?

If you are unable to be honest with yourself anonymously in this forum, then certainly nobody is able to help you.

Remember this.....We can only help you only when you have allowed us to do so.

 

I don't think she even love her ownself let alone her children. Where got woman self abuse herself one unless she is a masochist. Staying in a marriage for ten bloody long years and all the while knowing the hubby is flirting outside.

Oh, wait, she knew all along even before the marriage that the hubby was a flower man and yet she went into the marriage. Well, that just tells you one thing. She is also after his money. So, if one is willing to buy and one is willing to sell, a deal is seal. Money and looks was the key motivation for her to marry the guy. So, she don't actually love him for him but his money and looks. But now after ten years and it starts to eats into her and she is getting tired, cry foul and want out. Why? Because she is getting older no more the young xiao mei mei. Her outlook has change. She decided love is just as important and want it now and since she has cream enough from the hubby and certainly going to cream some more waiting for a big settlement from the divorce procedure. If she get out of this marriage she might still likely to land herself again in a marriage of love now since she is still consider young. Twenty-eight nia. Otherwise she will spend the rest of her life rich but no love.

Wah, very clever tactic here. I like it too.

Worse is your immediate boss selling some stupid expesnive things! You either buy or get prepared to make your boss a new enemy.

Once my stupid ex-boss try to use bully tactic to sell us some stupid water filter system which cost at least $1k!!! Anyway this wasn't the first time she did that to us. There were couple of time she tried to direct sell us make-ups, fake jewelleries or whatever shit so she can make money out of the staffs and go buy her branded goods. Those time we will buy because not really expensive mah but this stupid walter filter system cost $1K! Of course she said no obligation to buy one but you know we know that won't be the case. And true to our prediction when some of us refuse to buy she was very hostile towards us. After that, always try to find faults with us and give us a hard time. We all got fed up and ganged up on her then discretely complained to higher authority. Few months later we got a new boss, a male one NOW, we bully the new boss making him buy things from us

 

Honestly, I've no sympathy for those that suffer side effect after taking those pills. They want an easy way out and this is what you get for being lazy not wanting to really work it out. Serve them right!

Huh??? Got such thing as dream age one meh? So if that person is not right for you die die oso must marry by that age one ah? Isn't that looking for trouble? Very stupid isn't it?

You marry because that person is almost compatible with you. You marry because you feel comfortable with that person. You marry because you know deep down inside you that person is someone reliable that will walk down that path with you for the rest of your life. You don't marry simply because it's time to marry. Siao one TS!

LOL, and they said China girls are all money face. This Jean is our own local home bred greedy whore!  Ironic, isn't it?

What a cunt this Jean is! Hope John bleeds her dry for her likes. She is the one in sheep skin. But some men like John also so dumb. (Don't mean you dumbdumb)Chasing after a worthless shit like Jean knowing she is just using him. Luckily he woke up and now turn the table against her. No sympathy from me to her at all!

Never say never. It will come back to haunt you.

And unker FP, don't be so harshlah, cut her some slack even though the truth hurts.

And the sun will continue to shine while the rest of the eight planets orbiting the sun will, well, continue to orbit around the sun

Of late it seems it has become a trend to post anything and everything about PRC especially about how bad, despicable, money-grabbers they are on AA.

Eh? Anyone remember that something something 'Screw those chinese national' post? Oh yes! Here is zee link ; www.sgforums.com/12/topics/312099

Don't you just luv, luv, luv these kind of wuliao posts?