Argh. Not very true for me. only 2/5 is right, in my opinion. :)

I can't seem to edit. & I'm sorry I can't translate certain words. Just sec 4 only la. :) Also, pardon my english. Because I'm lazy to rephrase direct translation. /:

But anyway here's the rest. :)

D, angry: You want your lover to be..

1st: Very suitable with you. Your thinkings are similar, don't have to ask & you'll know what each other wants.

2nd: Someone who doesn't flare up easily. Must give in to you. 外剛內柔(?). Have own character.

3rd: A cute person by heart. Not predictable.

4th: A person who takes care of things even if they are only of minimal importance. Able to do what you ask for. Won't bother you with small matters.

5th: High IQ. A person who can 管得到你(? something like can take care of you, not sure). Must be logical.

Anxiety/worry: Actually, the real you is.. 
 
1st: Someone who is afraid of letting others know the real you. Don't like your own personality.

2nd: A 孤獨(? mayb means lonely) person. Wants to be with a crowd. But often doesn't know how to communicate with others.

3rd: Treats friends as very important people. Treasures a lot of friends. Dare to love, dare to hate. But doesn't bother about people you don't like at all.

4th: Straightforward person. This makes you often unable to blend with people. Wishes for people who understand you, especially people you like.

5th: Not sure of what your own future will be like/ what you want. But successfully lives your life. Don't have much expectations of things. Most importantly is that you are able to live every day happily. 

Personality test question: What would make you cry?

Order the following according to which would make you cry (1's the easiest, 5's the most difficult):
A. touched

B. sad

C. pain (injuries etc, not heartbreaks)

D. anger

E. anxiety/worry

Answers: (1st to 5th means the position you placed them while answering the above.)

A, touched: People who are not very close to you would feel that you are..

1st: Someone who keeps to yourself. Very mysterious, not easy to get close to.

2nd: Makes people around you feel happy. Sensitive person. Tends to be careful with bringing up topics that would hurt another person.

3rd: A silly person. Weird. Does whatever you feel like doing. But, very cute.

4th: Can't care for yourself, needs someone to be there to worry for you (especially your elders).

5th: A smart, responsible 領導人(?) Will respect you.

B, sad: People close to you would feel that you are..

1st: Have high expectations in many areas. Too 固執(? i think it means stubborn but, not sure) most of the time.

2nd: A reasonable person. Is very clear in opinions & decisions.

3rd: 心思很細膩的人(?) Doesn't express sadness in front of others, but others would be able to feel it anyway.

4th: Will consider throughly before 做選擇(?). Doesn't want others to look down on you. Your pride is quite high.

5th: 外剛內柔的人(?). Knows you are not strong-willed. 
 

C, pain: You want others to feel you are..

1st: Needs others' 保護(?).

2nd: Difficult to talk to/ get close to.

3rd: Good person. Makes people with you happy. Not afraid to make sacrifices.

4th: Smart, but not proud.

5th: Very certain of what you are thinking, what you want.

PS. i'll continue the rest later. :)

hey, im a girl too. im slightly shorter, 167. i know how you feel sometimes, wanting to be shorter, i do too. thats because similarly, im the tallest in my class (im in a girls school anyway). what everyone here said is true, if you're feeling inferior because the guys you know are shorter than you, dont worry ! there are really many tall guys out there. its not a disadvantage to be short, you wont be deprived of a boyfriend at all ! im also on the heavy side, lack the perserverance to exercise. :/ but i guess cutting on junk will help a little ? good luck ! (:

woah. if i were like that, ... i wish. i'll be grateful if i even get an E. :D

yeah. i try. 1 day i also know kinda impossible to improve.

its one week for the retake. every week, during PE lesson. i was actually asking for some tips how t improve. hah thanks anyway.

oh. yeah, my school have to retake.

poly ? poly dont have napfa what. im secondary 4.

dont have the mood or time to do all those. how to not stop ? running 5 rounds there continuously will kill me.

my napfa's tomorrow, i dont know whether i can pass. any tips for a person who hasnt ran for a long time ? oh anyway im a girl, the passingtime is 18 minutes. sounds easy, but i dont do sports and stuff.

well. i think it was a right decision ba.

jj, if a guy does that, he doesnt love you anymore. he said it. whatever for should you continue regretting, crying, for him ? think from another point of view, you still have a long way t go in life. friends, family, studies/work, w/e. manymany things t do. take a deep breath, calm down. do things you like, spend more time w your family. then out there, there are still manymany guys awaiting you.

for th new t come, th old has t go. life is not perfect, therefore you inevitably will experience such things. try t think from another point, you`ll b cheered up better. like me (:

good luck !

thankyou for all th advice. im sorry for my english. i`ll rmbr all these, & whatevr he gives me aft th hols, i`ll accept. if i hav t move on, i will. even if it takes a long time, i wont go back.

but he means so much t me. aft that day, i couldnt do anything w/o th thought of him. it was difficult t b ard my friends & family, i had t hide all these from them. i couldnt appear down & all that in front of them, could i ? i cannot let go, i know all i want is t b back tgt w him, then try t talk things out. wouldnt that work ?

well. t start, i want t say that i feel really stupid. but you cant blame me, can you ? i admit i was not thinking right, i was a little rash. alright, here goes.

less than a week ago, i broke up w my boyf. first, i started off msging him. then he gave me this cold reply. this doesnt happen just once, or twice. it`s many times. i know he`s out w his friends, i can tell. but guys, do you really ignore/not bother at all about your girlf when you`re out w friends ? in my opinion, if th girl matters at all t you, you wont do so.

i asked for a brkup. it was sms, he replied okay. it totally seemed like he didnt care at all.

th nxt day, i msged him again, i asked t patch. he told me that we should move on. then we quarrelled abit, he told me this : give me till th end of th hols, i`ll give you an ans aft th hols.

th hols are coming t an end. i guess you know what ans i want t get, right ? anw. i still msg him every morning, every night, even though he doesnt reply.

2 days ago, we had this conversation. in short, he told me 5 things. first, he told me that no matter what happens, we still hav t move on (i didnt reply him yet). then, he told me he wanted t patch (well, i didnt reply yet. it could b what his friend sent, i dontknow. but he didnt deny it anw). then he told me not t bother (w what he said previously). then, he told me i was thinking too much, & he said aft th holidays meant aft th holidays. last, i asked if i still had a chance w him, told him not t drag anymore if he had already decided t end all this. but he said most probably.

i dontknow how t face it. if th ans he`s going t give me is that we wont hav another chance. i want t know, what forumners think. advice is really appreciated, thank you for reading.

._. it`s at this blogshop exquisite-x3.blogspot.com
there`s a picture if you scroll down a little.
anyone know .

the long necklace w the heart. it`s not flat so puffy la

anyone know whr to find ?

pennisula ? i saw xxxxxxxxl shirts

Originally posted by Bz2t:

thx for the reply!
but may i know how long have u and ur bf know each other? cus i only stead with her less than 3 mths nia then alreadi nv meet up much le >.< and if u dun mind .. how old r u?

4 month plus :/ im in secondary 4 (:

that`s not far already compared to my boyfriend & me. he stays at east , & i stay at west. it takes abt 1hr plus at least to travel from there to here or here to there. but we dont quarrel over this at all ?

i believe that it actually really depends on how much you`re willing to give in , & whether your girlfriend minds travelling that 30mins or so to meet up w you. if she doesn`t feel like travelling far & you want to meet her , why not take the initiative , sacrifice a little 30mins of your time to meet up w her at somewhr convenient for her ?

once or twice a week is already enough. you`re still schooling , secondary school too. how do you expect her , or yourself to b able to have that much time for ea other ? for my boyfriend & me , we only meet up once a week. sometimes not at all. but we`re fine w it , i uds how inconvenient it is for him. & having a partner doesn`t mean all your time to him / her. what abt your friends ? spend more time w them.

last. i believe that once / twice a week is sufficient. don`t have to meet up so often. this way , you`ll learn to treasure the times spent tgt every week.

twit is a stupid language people create , lengthening their words for i dont know what reason. people use short forms , they use LONG forms ._.

for example , thiis iish twiitt.

Originally posted by aluvguru:

Hi candyx30,

Can I post your question in my blog and provide answers there?

Sure.

Originally posted by rainee:

Okie, you want the answer, here it is: it is definitely very normal to feel jealous.

But it is not normal if you let it get out of control. By getting out of control I mean you started to question his movements, try to check up on whoever he talks to, forbid him to talk to girls, read his SMSes to see if he is communicating with other girls...you get the idea.

How to cope with jealousy? You tell yourself it is normal and discuss it with him. Feeling jealous doesn't mean you don't trust him. It just means you want ASSURANCES. This is something he can do for you on his part. I always discuss with my bf whenever I feel jealous about some girls he is in contact with. After he told me that there is nothing between them and they are just friends and even introduces me to the girl, I started to feel the jealousy inside me lessens a lot.

Another way is also to cope yourself with other activities so that your mind won't just keep thinking about these issues. Tell yourself that you trust him, then go on and do your own stuff.

Okay, then I believe I'm fine. Thanks.

Originally posted by baby hunter:

trust me! jealousy is always a chemical which will sour the relationship
whenever u hv this feel...jus ask urself, what happen if ur bf oso hv same reaction towards u? dont think u will feel gd.

True. But, how to cope w all these negative feelings? It's not some feeling you can get rid of when you want to. Or at least, to me it isn't.