Believe in your dream...

Keep on knocking and knocking..

Maybe someone could give you a chance..

Or you might want to create there opportunity?

The possibilities are endless..

Good Luck!

Don't harp on the good times and bad times. Whatever glorious past or dark past you have had, most people are only interested what you are now.  So start anew now.

 

 

Originally posted by caleb_chiang:

Hey guys... no need to stab each other... to each their own opinion. And no, I'm not trying to be emo but already am in this stage of my life. Sigh~ Just hope that something good will turn out along the way.

Do you feel comfortable with this stage of life that you were talking about ?

Or are you willing to work for a higher quality of life ?

There are always many reasons behind a break up. It isn't one or two things that lead to the split. Rather than pointing fingers or figuring out the cause of the break up and worrying what will come next into your life, do the first thing first. Place your importance on your exams first. You don't have much energy to spend on now.

 

Hello TS,

Why focus on the few bad peanuts and forget about the hundred over good things that you have had in life??! Isn't that funny ? 

Rather than focusing on the past that can't be changed, why not focus in the present where, in every moment has the potential to evoke new and meaningful changes.

We can always take something positive from the past and move onto another stage in life. Life is very short. Don't waste it hoarding onto the bad stuffs. ok?

Cheers.

 

 

Small kind words and act can have a strong impact on people who are very down. You don't have to do much, just do what you can, let him know that there is someone out there who are concerned about him, even if he or she is like a stranger.

Juz finished a nap. Not tired anymore.

Take a break. Have an holiday to recharge.

6 to 8 packs but body must be lean and nice, with the face and height right.

 

Originally posted by BaByBoY:

there u go again...

i`m back to square one..

just when i thought i moved on, i lied to myself... my hearts still thinks of her. always wondering how she`s doing right now? her safety, her health and who she`s with now... i know i`m obsessed and probably have no right to even think about it, but these thoughts just came to my mind... been feeling super sad the past few days.. cant eat and slp, been tearing for no apparent reason, and my heart feels weak... how nice would it be if i can just see her and hug her now..

okok, feel sad is normal. If you don't feel sad, then you are not human. If you continue to stay on the self-pity land, then nobody can help you, except yourself.

The relationship is already over. Get a life. Get it?

Originally posted by Lefti68:

Most of d time pple tends 2 jump into d conclusion dat d particular person is doing something wrong. Without finding out d truth, they juz put d blame on dat person 4 everythings. However, d poor fellow din even noe wat exactly had happened. And now, he is being boycotted & oso hv 2 face sarcasms fr pple where he goes...

Hv anyone out there experience d similar situation? Can gif some advice or moral support 2 tis person? Thanks...

Perception, in how you see the issue. If it really trouble your friend, tell him/her to clarify the matter but if clarifying does not clear the issues.

Well I will just shrug, smile and then move on from it. I couldn't waste my time over things or people who do not understand me.

 

Pink Leftie with child bearing hips and fertile eggs ? that why ?

 

Originally posted by Catknight:

That's why Is stopped watch SG dramas..prefer HK dramas instead golden faith better tha sg golden path

yeah also better than the "golden pillow"

 

Originally posted by Combatus:

would u go for failures......

If you think you are failure, then you are low in confidence. You probably have no gut to even tell the a girl that i like you.

If someone love you becos he/she saw something or a potential that you fail to see in yourself. Then maybe that is what they say it love.

Love is blind or it could be encompassing.

Carrie Underwood - Praying for Time

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-wLsoky8z4 

 

= | Touching = |

If she is the one and she isn't attached, i don't see what is stopping you to try ?

why didn't you go for it then?!

It is really a nice story but every story also has an ending.

 

Live your life as if everyday is your last. Grab the opportunities that pass you by.

Don't waste it on little things. Don't hesistant too much.

Travel out of your comfort zone. The world is bigger than it seems.

 

Originally posted by BaByBoY:

is it really that hard to clear up the misunderstandings?

why is it so hard to talk? why not even the chance to talk? at least i wnt to know what happened? why cant she just let me talk?

 

Some relationship ended because the affinity is finished. It is just like that. Maybe whatever karmic deth you have owed her in the past life has been paid off. You are freed from debt :D

Don't waste your life over it le. Life is so short. Still have plenty of things to look forward to and other opportunities in other relationship.

 

 

Talk in their language if u can..

Originally posted by BaByBoY:

thx ppl,

i know where u all are coming from, i know it`s for my own gd.. u all my say i`m stubborn or what, but this r/s really meant a lot to me, so much that it had consumed me.. i`m a willing party, crazy as it may sound, but there seems to be nothing else i can or want to do, loving another is impossible, my heart is filled to the brim, letting go would be impossible because it`s become permanent. i will not say it`s not my fault, i`ve done the things i did, excuses will not cover my deeds no matter how things were then. my fault lies w how i could had better handled the situation, and not just my deeds alone.. if i could had been more patient and give in even more, nothing would had happened like it was now, having said that, things done could not ever been undone, the only assurance i can give to her my myself is that i`ll nv let it happen again. i only need a chance to prove myself, whatever time, effort or sacrifice it takes, i`m willing to pay the price for it..

Call me stupid,

BaByBoY

Hi BabyBoy,

 

See it in this way: Career, relationships, friendships comes and goes. No doubt some relationships last longer than others but eventually all will have an ending. All things are of transistory nature, including you and me.Life is very short and is shorter than lifespan of a piece of paper. Why do you have to zi zuo and make yourself miserable, for all that it is worth. Have some love for yourself, friend.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1) Zero Assoluto feat. Nelly Furtado - Win Or Lose

Lomantic ~~~

2) Everyday people

classic

 

Originally posted by jam on a bread:

Hi,

Thanks I am still here..ok I got a temp job & guess what, I was ask to leave in only half a day..wow, am I so bad? I not very good at excel & I came to a realization that perhaps in office, if you don't ask a lot & do things accurately, they love you so much?? But how can I do that? I am not a natural & I need to gain experience but they don't want to give me the chance!

Btw, I am a girl..haha, shocking er? You would thought that girls mature faster, ok I guess I am the exception. I don't think I am ugly now...but I do have low self esteem & people's first impression of me was that I looked scared & confuse.

I want to adapt, but they don't let me..or perhaps I was too slow to adapt to their pace. I am so frustrated right now..Can anyone give me some ideas to earn some keep?

 

What kind of office works are we talking about?

Perhaps you are not suitable for the task. I don't think you are as stupid as you have claimed. You probably is nervous and this anxiety will affect how you process information and your work performance. If you can overcome this psychological obstacles, believe me, you are as capable as almost everyone.

Stop blaming and berating yourself and others. It is all a learning process and such learning process is never smooth sailing. Some might have abit of bad luck. When you take up a new job, impression matters alot. You should do whatever you can to maintain there impression that you can do it. Act as if you can and have a positive and considerate manners.

Learn to relax while working. Most of the time, having too much stress undermine your work. Tell yourself that you can do it. Believe that you can and you can. It is good to try to solve the problems before asking questions. Even if we have made a mistake, while trying, it is okay, coz we are also learning from there mistakes. From every mistakes we made, we learn from it and grow. If you fear to make a mistake, you will not learn much.

Btw do you also have difficulties concentrating ? Exercise, meditation etc might be able to help your condition.

Some of my favourite quotes from the amazing Michael jordan.

I have missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot... and missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why... I succeed.

Overcoming Failure:
If it turns out that my best wasn't good enough, at least I won't look back and say that I was afraid to try; failure makes me work even harder.

Overcoming Failure
I've failed over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.

Business:
Just play. Have fun. Enjoy the game.

Determination:
Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

 

 

 

You can try though the chances are not high. Still, you do not need a Mass Comm degree to go into the media industry.

Tell yourself "Relax, let go, let go". If we come to understand where they are coming from, they are probably not having a good day and most of the time does not mean what they have said.