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    9 posts since Apr '08
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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by ghast.:

      i've got a tall stature at 169-170. and i actually feel inferior because of that. i know that many of my girlfriends will slap me for saying this but i don't want to be so tall. some will die to get some height from me, complaining that short is bad and they wanna grow tall. but not many actually will think from a tall person's view especially if you are a girl. the guys in my class are generally not tall at all, mostly the same as me or even shorter. i feel embarrassed walking with them. moreover i am not skinny. i feel like some giant with my girlfriends and the guys. there was once when we had to do dancing and i was paired with this guy close to half a head shorter than me. i almost died.

      i don't even wear heels but i just feel so uneasy. what the fuck can i do man. tall girls, whereeee aree youuuuu?

      I'm about 6' or about 1.84m and personally, I find it easier to talk to taller people. Don't have to bend so much while standing and talking. Had a friend in secondary school once who was about 1.75m. She was slouching cause I guess she was self conscious about the fact she towers over 90% of the class population.
       Don't worry though, there's sure to be some guys who would love to date tall women, at least I do.

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by Revolness:

      Regards to ken-san ,

       

      Err :/ meet up and tell her so fast?

      From what i think, she treats everyone the same.


      Ooops, I guess I misread your post. Like cuddles suggested, use msn to get closer to her irl.

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by Revolness:

      Hi all in AA, hope you all would be able to help me out and give me some advice. Thanks in advance. Heres the story.


      I met this girl who is my classmate in poly. Its kind of a love from first sight sort of situation. I could say i am really interested in her etc. It is rare that i am so interested in a particular someone that i would do lots of stupid things just to see her or talk to her.

      We had lots of interest for each other for the 1st week. What i mean is that, we had lots of eye-contacts, stealing glance at each other. Does it mean anything?

      As she is quite a pretty and cute girl, recently i found out that there is another 2 guys also from my class that is interested in her.I also found out that after the 2nd week she started to lose the ' interest ' shown in the first week. What should i do next ? Really interested to know her more,etc.

      What signs should i show to sort of hint her i am interested in her?
      What signs would she show if shes interested in me?
      What signs would she show if shes not interested in me

      For her personality, she is really quite a quiet girl in class. Rarely talks.

      Thanks in advance for any advice.


      Both parties are shy and quiet... Why not use msn to ask her to meet you one on one? Say that you have something important to get off your chest. If she agrees to meet you, you can be pretty sure she is interested in you too. That's what I would think anyway. Anyway, I would like to read the continuation to this story. Good luck, bro.

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by Hanagata:

      how to train your cool? work in customer services line... like those retail shop... :D


      Worked part-time in 7-11 before. Felt like strangling most of the customers, though there were a few that would make my day. Thankfully I've moved on to another job that have me directly deal with machines. They don't care if I swear at them in the face :).

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by stellazio:

      curse and swear at him inside my head.. --> part 1

      and find a indirect way to get back at him, hopefully getting him into trouble.. --> part 2

      and once those 2 are done, its cool..


      Depends on the situtation for me. I put myself in the shoes of the other person. It might just be that he/she be under a lot of stress in which I would just laugh it off afterwards. If the other party is just trying to make me look bad/bully, then it would be time for a revenge.


      Quiet people are not always meant to be stepped on ;).

      Edited by ken-san 24 Apr `08, 6:00AM
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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • You can do it! Just don't try too hard and get yourself injured or something. Looking forward to seeing a post of your change in the future. Be it mentally or physically. Good luck!

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by cuddles:


      so detailed ah.. the singles club members are mostly from jurong.. look at that list..


      Ah, I guess I should've just posted 25/m hmmmm.......

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    9 posts since Apr '08
    • Hi. I'm 25/m and living in Yishun.

      Number of past steadies: 0.

      Purpose of being here: Research.

      Nice to meet you all!