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Hi BabyBoy,
I feel sad for you after reading your post. Regardless of what might happen to both of ya in future, be glad that you've once met, enjoyed, cried together... At least, these are the memories that belongs to both of ya.
Life will turn better and more fulfilling for you and her from here on... I believe.. Move on and let things take its nature course.
Regards
Angeline
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To those who has unable to catch it live yesterday on TVB.
FYI it's not a complete video of the whole function. Only parts of it
http://you.video.sina.com.cn/b/11574567-1358721574.html
http://you.video.sina.com.cn/b/11569008-1270492934.html
http://you.video.sina.com.cn/b/11569977-1270492934.html
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Originally posted by shadez:
I'm currently in a relationship and lately, i've been feeling emotionally drained inside. I see my girlfriend everyday but i don't really get sick of her, i actually enjoy seeing her daily as i miss her alot when she isn't with me.
Due to her school work, recently she has become very irate. She would blow up at me for nothing and sometimes, i feel like i'm her punching bag. I admit, i'm not a boyfriend who gives her alot of freedom, but i'm very sure that i try to meet her every demand. I fetch her from school everyday so that she has someone to share her day's events with...
We're arguing almost everyday, and 80% of the time, i'm the one giving in and apologising to her, trying to make things right. Whenever she stomps away from me in the heat of an argument, i feel really hurt as she doesn't even turn her head to see if i'm behind.
Sometimes, i try to do what she does, not looking back and walking away. But i found myself unable to do it. No matter if it was her fault or mine, i would always want her to be on good terms with me and therefore, would always make it a point to make things better.
If i were to judge myself, in my own opinion, i would think that i'm the softer party in this relationship. I can't bear to see us arguing but sadly, i feel that she can be very hard-hearted at times.
It's confusing to me, as i feel that she really loves me. When we are on good terms and she is happy, she would make me promise her that we'll never argue again. But in the end, another argument would sprout out.
We've had countless arguments on the phone, when we're outside. The thing i disliked the most, is that sometimes she'll say "whatever...".
I still love my girlfriend, and i'm emotionally drained. The thought of breaking up is unthinkable as i can't imagine myself to be without her. She has told me before that she can't live without me too. I've been together with her for almost 8 months already.
To whoever is reading this, if you had been in my situation in your life, would you care to share your opinion and resolve? Much thanks to anyone who helps.
Hi shadez,
My husband and I were ever been in similar situation when I'm still in school. For past 7 years, we meet each other almost everyday even till now we are married but not living together yet.
Due to my project work at that time, I'm very stressed out and he was still in army then. We can quarrel over small things which sometimes we don't even know why we started the argument. During that time, we too almost splitted up, like you, feeling drained out. Thankfully, my best friends were there to help both of us out, telling us we should communicate with each other.
He started giving in to me (he has a very bad temper) and cheer me up whenever I feel easily frustrated. Sometimes, he will buy small little stuffs to make my day better. After a while, I began to appreciate his way of compromising and I told myself, I should control my frustration towards him afterall he is not the factor to it. As the 'give and take' by both of us, things actually get better and till today, we are happily married. :)
So.. don't give up so easily on a relationship that means so much to you. Just remember, it's all about compromising each other and communication. Talk to your gf, find a way out to suit best for both of ya. Well, I have to admit, girls need ppl to pamper at times (some of them, all the times) haha.
Cheerios!

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DujTVVE_jXk&feature=related
Byul by Kim Ah Joong (OST 200 Pounds Beauty)
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Originally posted by 我爱周杰伦:
he is cheapskate. he will say it is a matter of principle but in fact is $$$$$$$Haha I just sometimes don't understand why ppl can go through all these hassles to create so many problems.
It just make everyone life difficult.
I guess Nokia has no choice either to ignore him.
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Originally posted by vitamin P:
he was very nice to me in his actions.. so i thought perhaps he has some feelings for me..
then why suddenly after i question him,he only wants to be a good friend?
Maybe that is what he thinks all along. He feels comfortable with you and he feels that you''ll make a good friend.
But anyway, no harm in continue with your friendship. It will give both of ya more allowance to understand each other better.
After that, it could be more clear if both of ya really suits each other.
Friendship first doesn't mean the end or ruling out all the possibility of a relationship.
If you really like him, relax and let nature take course huh?

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I personally feel that no one in fact can answer on your choice. That's your own decision.
However i'm just curious, you mentioned you have plans to settle down with B, and why is the re-appearance of A so easily affecting you? If that's the case, guess maybe B is not what you wanted. Perhaps you should ask yourself your choice of a companionship or a desired love?
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