881? How you all find? I think it well directed. It's a Sg director.

last time very popular. Use to have shop that sells just that. Now seems no where to be found.

Originally posted by New Creation:

Well, lets face it. Men are visual animals. WE pick our gfs by hormones not reasoning. That is the sad reality but TRUE for ALL MEN.

There is a good saying, "God only gave men enough blood to either service only the Brain or penis at any one time."

If you think you are fat, go workout. Period. No more case to argue about it. If you think this is materialistic and superficial, so be it. Because this is the world we live in.

I mean, Men also detests fat overweight spouses because the she could be carrying certain health problems you see like high pressure, cholestrol and other illness.

It is not only him saying the above but others also like that. Otherwise, if not for looks, then why these men choose China women as wife?

Originally posted by Zarks:

walao, u cannot say like that la..

before or after married can also have the problems. whre got any diff ar

yes. just like TS to know that. The choice is his afterall. just a piece of advice for him to ponder.

If he still wants to be with her-> it's possible-> provided one party change-> How many ppl actually change?

Originally posted by abterror:

No matter at which stage of our life.
What matter is discuss, undertsand and work towards a common solution.

That is an ideal situation

What doe not happen in courtship does not meant it wont happen in a marriage.
right?

Yes, you r right. But urs already happen during courtship. It will highly occur in marriage. lots of ppl only exp it only when they get married which then that they realise that it is family violent.

Originally posted by abterror:

Hi all,

I would like to hear your opinion from both genders.
how many of you guys and gers have been thru all these?
And what is your perception of this.

Personally, I have been thru all these.
Some ppl will view it as great passion will lead to great anger.
I fought with my ex-gf b4. eg push and hold her down.
Sometimes it is anger and act of defence mechanism. (she has a very fiery temper)
But i will just put it aside the next day and view it as an act of communication.
But to her, she viewed me as an aggressive person.

On the other hand, the common practice now is
Guys is usually at fault, reason we are physically stronger.
And gentleman kind of expectation which is seeked from us.

So what is ur stand ladies and gentlemen.

Note that Guys are physically stronger than women. One punch might kill her.

Besides, pasion and love direct opposite to anger. The old sayings don apply at ur situation but under mother and son relationship.

Originally posted by abterror:

All i can say is, we had miss out blind spots and left many things unsettled.
Hence it becomes a bomb.
When something trigger, it become a chain reaction.
If someone else is by their side, they will just sweep them away.

i cant really tell everything in words as it was a 3 years issue.
I do treasure the times with her and treated her as if she was my priced possession.

Ours is actually not a normal relationship, i came into her life and pulled her out of her dark world whe her husband left her. In which her ex hubby vertually fought with her and get very physical with her. Slap, punch, hit her back till blue black, pin her down etc.
To a certain extend. love is irrational, feelings get distorted and words turned into actions. She would keep everything to herself and endure hoping that she can settle her issue herself.
I appeared at her darkest hours and gave her mental support.
I was the shadow of her ex hubby, how many of you can accept the fact when you get intimate with your partner and yet she called out another person's name?
I guess out of gratitute, she stay by my side for these 3 years to return the favour.

A very dramatic romance imo.

Well... at least you encounter it now otherwise it will escalate into FAMILY VIOLENT.

Originally posted by Seven_Dragon:

Hello, who's capricorn in sgf?
Happy birthday to you guys and gals!!!

I am capricorn too
FOrm in here... and leave your name here...

Capricorn so COOL

me no Capricorn. but like to say Happy Birthday to the Capricornians.

Originally posted by RatedR:

if wanna marry into a muslim family, must convert to muslim isit? no other alternatives?
die die must convert?
bery troublesome sia...

anyone encounter tis or smth familiar? wan ur thoughts. pls share.

what is dont convert, what will happen go jail

think so... ask your muslim friend

Originally posted by thinking too much:

Any1 married here tat wakes up in the morning & doesn't know where ur other half is or who he/she has spent the nite with..? 5/6 times a mth.. & u dunno who 2 call or where 2 go 2 find out..

I really felt like a fool here..

that's the problem u ll face when marrying foreigner as wife.

Originally posted by OutOfIdeasHusband:

So, if a husband goes around sleeping, then the wife is to be blamed for not giving him sex?

if the husband goes around sleeping means he got many choices and no lack of sexx partner outside, cannot blame the wife for not giving him sexx lah.

character difference. cannot condemn anyone lah.

It is quite frustrating when u find your partner not in sync with yourself.

Originally posted by ahsiang12:

34 for a man is old already! People should have get married in their 20s, not 30s.

One day u will find that man at their 30s are consider young. Some Men at their 60s are with 20plus women okay.

does he say that often last time? Just recall when he said 'I love you' and under what circumstances he said it. Dont think negatively, be positive.

I thought doctor

How come housewife?

Originally posted by angel7030:

Why so troublesome and have to wait so long, go in, if u r a gal, seduce the old boss and be his mistress, sure to sit on top, if u r a guy, seduce the boss' wife, guarantee u sit higher than the boss.

So, have you been a mistress to anyboss right now?

Originally posted by FireIce:

i think ministry of health is doing pretty ok wat

the more pressing one is..........does raymond lim know how to manage ministry of transport?

KBW ok... reasonable.
but ministry of manpower

they will ask for a $30 registration fee pay online and ask you to wait for the assignments. but later no news from them already. So guys, don't fall into the scam.

Originally posted by fatslob:

Maybe its just me.. but i dunno what the appeal of going into medicine is. Is it the prestige? Cos work environment wise its so staid n sterile, pay wise, unless u specialize, otherwise its only on par or less than certain professions. Work hours r ridiculous, responsibilities and liabilities tremendous. Job satisfaction wise probably isn't as great as many ppl think (even today medicine is not as effective as ppl think... u can't cure or save most patients, u can prolong life a bit, lessen their pain etc. most of the time u feel helpless as a doc or u dun feel at all)

TS, it's not for pride and monies to be a doctor else a fall even a person got gd grades in studies. A gd doc must have the responsibilities and abilities to help human from suffering and prosperity will come automatically.

paid to be an online typist?

How about anybody taken any budget plane to Australia? Can we bring our own food into the plane?

Anyone has taken budget Airplane to Australia or Other places? e.g. Vietnam.
Which airplane and how's the food and facilities?

Originally posted by The return:

Did you give $ to your father who is still working? I give him lesser compare to my mom who is not working leh.. he like not happy leh.. how much you give your dad ah?

I think it's ok bcos ur dad still working.

I find them only know how to play the BORING COMPUTER GAMES. Moreover, they have started playing it even on the MRT!!!The SILLY GAME BOX… THE GAME GEEKS!

Originally posted by Simontay78:

Thanks for your questions! For your question about generating a consistent and reliable voltage is however true, it's just like solar panels that have efficiency of 15% now subjected to weather conditions similarly to windmills.

The common solution (by windmills) to solve this problem is a charge controller or bridge rectifier or Schottky diode to limit back-flow of electricity back to the coils from the battery. (Not tested yet so not sure correct or not, do correct me if I am wrong)

Once the battery is charged, the output will be much more consistent then normal and can use "inverter" to change the DC 12 Volts to AC 230 Volts at desired Wattage (depending on the inverter specification for power values)

I used a power inverter for 1000W hence can possibly run laptops and charge hand phones for a fully charged lead acid battery.

Do check out the video featured in my solar LED project on how to use the inverter to power a Television using a fully charged lead acid battery (big ones).

Congrats! Give me one if possible.