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Hey, anyone knows where can i find sony ericsson phone’s theme for download? thanks..

enough, please.. i’m hoping to track down my kitten.. just got lost today, hope it doesnt wander off.. anyone keeps pets here? where do u think kittens would normally wander off to? wat kind of places would they like? i’ve searched around and still cant find…

Does anyone know how will a lost kitten think? it just ran out of my house and i wana know roughly where will be a high chance for me to find it. i live in a hdb. will a kitten run up the stairs? or down?

oh man… some good, some bad advices i got here.. i guess i’m gonna hav a good chat with her… after her exams that would be… and hopefully it turns out well… she’s pretty cold towards me now… i hope its because of the exams…

our relationship is very much like what u said, devil… if u were in my shoes, wat would u do to try and win her back?

u mean i dont say anything and just leave her alone? she’s been treated like this by someone else before and it left her very hurt… i’m not going to do it to her agian… the best i think i shld do, is to talk it out with her and hopefully let her understand how i feel..

i got no idea man.. but now she’s having exams.. i dont wana give her more probs… she wans to score and i shldnt obstruct her…

as for that guy now, i asked her again if she’s interested in him… coz they were like very often together… and she said she and him are just frens… that guy told her that he likes her before but she rejected…

turning point... her ex bf kept pestering her and made her really down.. i offered to talk it out with him but she doesnt want.. so i choose to wait... after which, she knows this guy.. which is the guy who likes her now... and during then i was trying to get her attention and stopped msging her for a few days... they got quite close together.. i asked if she likes him.. she said she doesnt know...

then i decided to chase her again.. and got close to her and finally held her hand... she kept longer before the other guy knew we were together... i really didnt know why she didnt wanted to let him know abt it... i actually told her that i like her alot before and she said how come she couldnt feel it... it just went deterioating and i just kept moving in... until now, she's like only with 2 toes on the relationship block and i'm fully in with a huge space behind..

i played the sport really well in a short amt of time of abt 2 years.. and i was able to match the players who had 8 to 10 years of experience… so i WAS quite an icon… but now, the other guy who likes her as well.. is able to do the same.. and he’s better in physique which makes him a better player… plus now i’m almost graduating… and i’ve lost touch… which leaves him as the icon now.. and he just seem to be able to do it better than me.. and he has one more year to go.. same as her… by then, i’ll be going into the army…

i dont know… we had a romantic chat and i asked her she said she doesnt know as well.. i tink its becoz i played the sport really well before and i became quite famous with many people eyeing on me… i used a racquet with the colour she likes, and my fren whose in her class told her tt i’m the vice captain.. when they saw me playing.. plus on that day she picked a ball for me and i said thank you.. i have a stupid ah beng face and she was quite stunned to hear me saying thank you.. so on that fateful day, we kinda leave each other a nice impression… but i havent been able to focus well and i kinda lost my ability to play…

Your post, stating the questions? well, i think my value dropped because i've been doing too much.. showering gifts, giving her much attention... resulting in her thinking that i'm too easy... her feelings changed... i dont quite hav an idea.. i think our relationship deteriote coz, we cant 'hit' many times.. i couldnt get her to be comfortable with me.. and it seems like my matters are of no concern to her...

the other guy that i mentioned, he is a more cool and calm guy... she likes this kind of guys... he's a more gentleman and more capable than i am.. and better looking.. and now he's more popular than i am... and i think people thinks he's more compatible with her... well, if u compare, i just kinda suck..

yea, but her mood is quite erratic.. who knows i could be lucky on valentines day and hit a ‘good’ mood.. she would be able to enjoy that day, i’m confident… even if she started out being not really wanting to come… there were a few occasions like that and sometimes i manage to bring her mood up…

nah, she wouldnt lie.. if she’s going out with someone else, she will tell me straight… she will go out with me on valentine.. but maybe she doesnt really want to.. but she knows ‘by right’ she should and so she will.. but i dont want that, wats the point of she forcing herself to do it.. i believe there are a few occasions of other matters like that as well.. i could see she isnt very happy when doing it..

should i really go talk it out with her one day and know how each other feel once and for all… but she’s having exams now… once exams over, its the weekend before valentines day.. i really wana give her an enjoyable vday before we really talk it out… i think she cant feel that i’m in this state yet so it shld be okay right…

we have training the very next day, she could try out on that day instead right? not wasting a pair just for an evening… she wears dailies…

to move on is to break up with her isnt it? wat if she eventually found she hav feelings for me… by know her personality, she wont come back for me… it means i’m going to break her heart.. for goodness sake, i’ve broken people’s heart before and i dont want to do it again…

if u search my previous posts, i’ve posted about my prob with this same girl.. and again everyone told me to let go.. i held on and eventually, i got her hand… and now i hav a problem with her, i believe i can get it solved and move on.. what i need, would be ur advice to help me in my goal.. let me know if u were in my shoes, wat would u best do to hav a shot in gaining back her heart…

not every case is the same, why should i wake up when i havent been asleep. i do know wat i need, wat i dont.. maybe i havent given u a clearer picture of wats going on… though thats the best unbiased view i can give.. maybe i’m in the wrong somewhere.. i’d like to seek ur advice in making a remedy for it..

She's extremely understanding, a sentance of explaination is all u need. she doesnt fall for flowers and gifts, sweet talk tricks.. she doesnt get stuck on u like other girls. even at the start of the relationship. but wats different is that when i first knew her, she wans to talk to me more.. and when i replied her msg abit late, she said she tout i ignored her.. and she still smiled.. but now, she can reply my msg an hr or 2 late and not initiate to tell me why.. its not tt impt to me actually, but i just wana see if she cares...
i play a sport.. she used to like watching me play it.. we're training in the same team.. but now, i never see her watching me.. but i do see her watching the other guy.. who is also in the team...

for those who are going to advise me to move on, please keep ur replies. because i’ve seen many girls and arent are like her… i never wanted to be involve in a relationship again until i know her.. i was quite a selfish guy, though she didnt practically but her actions taught me to be polite, taught me how to communicate properly and taught me how to treat myself better.. she’s just so special.. seen none like her…

i’m feeling very neglected now… how can i let her know this and not make her feel weird…

but we’re suppose to live through life together.. i believe we should share problems to each other and support each other to press on… i’ve been putting alot of effot into this and i think its abit too much.. i think its quite my fault that i’m over pushing it… but everything i do, it takes effort, it takes time… how can i let her understand this…

Hey people,
my story goes like this...

i have a girlfriend, we've been together for about 4mths+. but she isnt commited to this relationship. i remember when we first knew each other for not long, she was quite crazy about me.. being very sensitive.. now she rarely is... she replies for my msgs are often short and she doesnt ask much about me.. though i told her about some of my probs, she never asked me about how it is the next day or so.. her conversations with me are short, i've asked her to come out a couple of times but she always says she's lazy or tired.. wats more is that there's another guy who like her as well and he's waiting patiently for her.. and... u know wat my worst nightmare would be... she went out with him to get his new year clothes and i can understand that. but i saw her when she was on her way back and she wore contacts... she never wore contacts when she's out with me.. and she never talked or smile to me when she sees me.. i asked if she was going back and she just nod her head..

Now, i'm living through quite painful days.. failing to get her attention. i've talked to her a few times abt her being not responsive and she often give s me a word of sorry. it hurts me to hear that.. and now i dont really wana confront her again.. i dont like to hear that sorry... feels like we're strangers.. she very rarely ask abt me in daily life, unless she's really in good mood.. and i'm feeling quite miserable...