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Originally posted by angel7030:
your parents marry her or you??
if cannot approve, use the shot gun method. aiyo, guy, sebei cham. Can get honour, master, PhD, but when come to relationship, most failed. D++
pi4 ke2 yi3 ruan4 fang4, fan4 ke2 yi3 ruan4 chi1,hua4 bu4 ke2 yi3 ruan4 shuo1 wor...skarly some stalker of yours use shotgun method to get u....hehe
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Originally posted by rainee:
It might soften the blow. Parents, the traditional ones, usually want someone in the family to carry on the family name. So if he has siblings and he converts to Islam, at least the parents can still rely on the other sons in the family so the effect, although will still be disastrous, but won't be as bad as if TS is the only son in the family...
Anyway, your parents are two individuals, you can do nothing much to change their feelings about you dating a Malay girl if they are bent on going against the relationship. So for now just go out with her per normal and try to turn a deaf ear to whatever your parents are saying. Since you say you have no plans to think about marriage yet, then just live in the moment for now...
does this kind of situatuion happen in malaysia?
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hokkien romanization very unfixed one hor...when i listen i listen it as si4 beh3 ge4 yan3.....means like...when someone does thing/stuff that would make another party left 'impressed' that person will just exclaim this phrase...it's like when a person do something cock then other will say he's beri 'cute' leh this kinda lor...
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Originally posted by Raraken:
Walao eh, they can fit the bus so straight inside ah, I thought when reversing into must have bang the wall?
for those who serve as NS in SAR should know or at least see how they direct the BX and M113 ba...i think it's the same way as guiding a bus w/o banging the wall...
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Originally posted by White_SoulReaper:
TS,
I somewhat could understand your situation... My dad's a chinese and my mum's a malay... Lucky for you, the girls family could accept you...
For my parents, when they started dating, both sides of the family rejected to this idea.. I guess it was because of the mindset during that time,,,
From what my parents told me, they had lots of obstacles... From my mum's side, they tried to have an arranged marriage for my mum... But she strongly refuse... My dad side, his parents gave him the silent treatment... This was when they were just dating...
When they really got serious, my dad came to my maternal grandparents house to ask for my mum's hand of marriage,.. He didnt tell me the full details on this one...
When they got married, my dad convert to Islam BTW, my mum side was beginning to accept him... My paternal grandparents were still cold to him... Until my eldest brother was born...
About the name, no need to worry... I have a muslim name with my fathers surname in front...
Even if your parents say that they will disregard you as the eldest son, they actually wont... Even if the put it in action, in their heart, you are still they eldest... Just be patient and be strong... You could try and bring home your GF to intro to you parents.. But they will be very cold at 1st... Your GF must really learn how to impress them and be strong...
full detail might be those TOC stated in red...
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