fat gal and slim gal problem...
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hi...by the way isit only slim gal then can find a handsome guy bf? and fat gal cannnot find handsome guy bf? and isit only slim gal then will have bf? and only fal gal then will not have bf? and isit only slim gal then will meet their real mr.right? and only fat gal then will not meet their real mr.right? and isit only slim gal then will have true love and fate? and only fat gal then will not have true love and fate? and isit only slim gal then will have love at 1st sight...and only fat gal then will not have love at first sight? haiz...
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silm girl -> find bf easy, but hard to find one that truly loves her.
fat girl -> hard to find bf, but if one is found, he probably truly loves her.
Understand? Love has no limits, hence, everybody is equal
EDIT: and yaeh i saw your pics -
Well, lets face it. Men are visual animals. WE pick our gfs by hormones not reasoning. That is the sad reality but TRUE for ALL MEN.
There is a good saying, "God only gave men enough blood to either service only the Brain or penis at any one time."
If you think you are fat, go workout. Period. No more case to argue about it. If you think this is materialistic and superficial, so be it. Because this is the world we live in.
I mean, Men also detests fat overweight spouses because the she could be carrying certain health problems you see like high pressure, cholestrol and other illness. -
Yea true. however instead of complaining, TS you can do yourself a favour by doing more exercise and healthy diet with a good social circle.Originally posted by T E M P O:silm girl -> find bf easy, but hard to find one that truly loves her.
fat girl -> hard to find bf, but if one is found, he probably truly loves her.
Understand? Love has no limits, hence, everybody is equal
EDIT: and yaeh i saw your pics
U want handsome and rich bf, make sure you are worth it too.
Laziness won't get u anywhere, beside whinning.
PS: don't aim too high la, sure can find.
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x2Originally posted by New Creation:Well, lets face it. Men are visual animals. WE pick our gfs by hormones not reasoning. That is the sad reality but TRUE for ALL MEN.
There is a good saying, "God only gave men enough blood to either service only the Brain or penis at any one time."
If you think you are fat, go workout. Period. No more case to argue about it. If you think this is materialistic and superficial, so be it. Because this is the world we live in.
I mean, Men also detests fat overweight spouses because the she could be carrying certain health problems you see like high pressure, cholestrol and other illness.
We do realise that not every fat girl has a good heart, that's why sometimes we rather carry a arm trophy then get dumped later than get something else and still get dumped later. -
regardless of whether u fat or slim
if you dont know how to be happy with yourself, you will always be plagued with insecurity and lack of confidence. These causes relationship problems if you do not resolve them.
If you don't think YOU deserve to be liked by someone, then why would anyone be attracted to you? Worse, even if someone is, you would spend the entire relationship full of self doubt and fear of losing. That is a handicapped relationship.
it doesn't mean these problems will end once you become slim. I know lots of pretty, slim girls who for whatever weird reason, don't have self confidence about how they look either.
Understanding yourself and knowing where your strengths are, and not just your weaknesses, make you more confident.. and that can be very attractive to many guys too.
This is coming from a fat girl btw. -
love yourself before you even wanna start loving other people
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so are you looking for a boyfriend or his $$$Originally posted by Li4nGsteR:Yea true. however instead of complaining, TS you can do yourself a favour by doing more exercise and healthy diet with a good social circle.
U want handsome and rich bf, make sure you are worth it too.
Laziness won't get u anywhere, beside whinning.
PS: don't aim too high la, sure can find. -
It is not only him saying the above but others also like that. Otherwise, if not for looks, then why these men choose China women as wife?Originally posted by New Creation:Well, lets face it. Men are visual animals. WE pick our gfs by hormones not reasoning. That is the sad reality but TRUE for ALL MEN.
There is a good saying, "God only gave men enough blood to either service only the Brain or penis at any one time."
If you think you are fat, go workout. Period. No more case to argue about it. If you think this is materialistic and superficial, so be it. Because this is the world we live in.
I mean, Men also detests fat overweight spouses because the she could be carrying certain health problems you see like high pressure, cholestrol and other illness. -
Msian mei mei bestOriginally posted by dreamykite:It is not only him saying the above but others also like that. Otherwise, if not for looks, then why these men choose China women as wife?
Yea, unlike the olden days, the "dinosaur" gals might not have a inner beauty as well.
Maybe women can consider China men or banglahs? some are handsome ok
Anyway back to the topic, as others mentioned with that mentality TS is not ready for relationship. -
Biologically speaking, men are most attracted to women who for various reasons, will produce the most healthy offspring.
Singapore practices a one man one woman doctrine. Theorectically you'd have to wait till all the really good women have been chosen before it is your turn.
However there are other factors at play too. -
I can be the best bf in the world but if no girl wants to be with me, then does the first sentence still holds?
U are fat so? I ever like a tomboy, really tomboy almost like a guy kind. Now, i like a slim like bamboo but as tall as me >.< Last time, i aim for chio bu and now i wonder y i am aiming so lowly.
Simple: Not all guys go for look when comes to selecting love. But sexual partner is a definite yes.
Instead of saying u are fat, y not do something. My female cousin also fat and i directly shot her about her outlook. Y? If u not gonna do anything about it, u will never get it. Whine until die, problem still not solved? This is self-pity and no pity from others. Wake up!!! -
Discipline = Caring.
How much do you care about yourself... to work the obvious. -
Lust = Looks and Body.(in other words, outer beauty)
Love = Feelings and inner beauty. -
anyway why u want to have love at first sight?
so fleeting and transient?
its like buying something cos it is on discount you know and u happen to have money. -
cool.. mosy guys like slim girls.. but there are guys looking for true love
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your 1st question is about finding handsome bf. That's what you're really after right?
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those that link other people pics will get banned.Originally posted by Daisuke-kun: -
hmm.. dun worry abt it though. hmm. just eat lesser then exercise more lo. actually hor i also see fat gals got bfone lo. dun say that fat gals dun haf can because they do. n dun call urself fat or anything. you are just chubby and you are cute and cute certainly does not mean ugly but adorable only adorable ok? if you dun haf confiedence in urself then how can ppl see that you like urself? if you cannot even like urself, how can u expect ppl to like you though
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x2Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:anyway why u want to have love at first sight?
so fleeting and transient?
its like buying something cos it is on discount you know and u happen to have money.
thats on my msn nick now lol. -
hmmOriginally posted by Daisuke-kun:
aiya TS.. if u r outgoin.. confident.. positive.. i dun tink u will have a prob lookin for ur mr right..
so dun worry lo.. and maybe u wana try to "jian fei".. u might attract more boys n able to live much longer -
hmm.. love at first sight is not true love. that's infatuation not love although infatuation can eventually leads to love but not always the case.
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actually being healthy does mean that you can live longer, it just means that when u die, it will be painlessOriginally posted by metalcar:hmm
aiya TS.. if u r outgoin.. confident.. positive.. i dun tink u will have a prob lookin for ur mr right..
so dun worry lo.. and maybe u wana try to "jian fei".. u might attract more boys n able to live much longer
