Reality? See for Yourself
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Is this the Reality? Is it true that most Sgforumers get bullied in real life hence they tried to find a way to vent their anger: by being rude, sarcastic in forums when they weren't in real life? Or should I say this is the only way for most forumers to vent their anger like what they can't in real life? Or should I say they are just putting on a fake "mask" in real life and only through the Internet they have really become themselves?
First of all, by gathering from all the posts in Sgforums, I have found out that most people like to give rhetorical replies, sarcastic remarks and/or useless smileys. ( note that it's and/or used, stating that both type of people exists.) Please take a look at this example from this thread in Sgforum: http://www.sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316262 ..
can someone plan my life for me? i think i am heading towards self destruction
The above question was being asked, though it may seems "lame" or "stupid" for most people, I believe the Thread Starter is trying to explain his/her feelings to the viewers. Maybe a simple reply like, " Hmm, relax bah, take a step back and see further skies.." or " Take it easy." could be said.. Or maybe if you really feel like it's far beyond your concern, maybe by being quiet will be the BEST option.. However, let's take a look from these replies,"
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day 1: run around orchard road naked.
day 2: run around geylang naked.
day 3: run around Chinatown naked.
day 4: run around Little India naked
day 5: run around town from polices
day 6: let everything settled down and get some rest.
day 7: run around the Istana naked.
that should suffice you for the whole week.
tell me when your done with my plan for u.
i shall have another plan for u rdy
Edited by Daisuke-kun 02 May `08, 8:52PM
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:show
nice plan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - ..
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- Originally posted by extra one:show
Go and die please.......thanks GOD this isn't Aunt Agony Forum. Or I might really have taken you seriously.However if you do your usual extra thing as repeat this topic in Aunt Agony Forum, then please use that time to end your forsaken life ok?
Thank you so much for being an extra one.
Is our values really crumbling down to pieces??? Is the society really this cruel as to tell someone that requires your concern to die?? Why did Sgforumers become so evil?? To the extent of telling someone to die??! And so much for a Sgforumer, see the italics words... can you sense the sarcasm???
And there is more. Trust me. Randomly click on any threads in Chit Chat, see for yourself, for I don't want to be infused by the cruelness of this society by viewing those posts. Not only in Chit Chat, see the top 10 forums. Click on every of them. See everyone of them. See how people gets scolded for nothing.
In life, would you like to get scolded for nothing? Would like to get scolded just because you need counselling? Why is it that in real life, people that replies those thread behaves so differently? Is it because the Internet is the only place you can say out thing you do not like?
And for God's sake, see the Heading of this Sgforum: Singapore's Online Community. What can you tell from the word community? Sarcarsm? Evil Replies? Lack of compassion? Devillish society? Cruel people?
Or put it in the crude way, is it just some weak people trying to act big f@#k? Notice why I put the word weak? Because only weak people does that? Heroes dies for others, not kill others. Only weaklings does try to act big f@#k when they weren't.
I also understand that some forums are full of compassion... but with comparison to the highest viewing sites and the lowest viewing sites.. Sites like "Chit Chat" has a huge number of visitors, viewers and authors all over, and it's very active.. But on the contrary , this is also the most junkiest forum, full of synthetic ,evil, dark and cruel replies. Not a quote but a fact. So this means that posting in these types of forums can easily get hurt and can easily get non-constructive comments.. which is quite understandable..
Moderators, I hope you can understand that you all can make the difference. Be it a harsh community, or a kind and generous society, it all depends on all of you. And naturally, the viewers too.
Okay, After saying so much, Ban me if you must. Cancel off my thread if you must. Spam this thread with synthetic replies for all you want. Ignore this thread for all you want. Laugh your head off for all you want. Jeer at me for being such a busybody for all you people want. But ask yourself, does it prick your conscience? Is the above true? Ask yourself, are you someone that changes your attitude totally once you are online, once you can post in forums whereby you can scold others?? Think. I am not God, I can't make you think. All depends on you.
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but i think the TS can post in aunt agony next time if he is really serious abt it though.
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pple like to post their problems and share let them post lah...its like yourself, you are posting your own perspective and so are others...
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ok. thank u.
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Blame the stupid clones. Now we dunno which new members are serious members and which are clones.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
but i think the TS can post in aunt agony next time if he is really serious abt it though.
i think whinehouse also can... -
Originally posted by zhenhong:
Is this the Reality? Is it true that most Sgforumers get bullied in real life hence they tried to find a way to vent their anger: by being rude, sarcastic in forums when they weren't in real life? Or should I say this is the only way for most forumers to vent their anger like what they can't in real life? Or should I say they are just putting on a fake "mask" in real life and only through the Internet they have really become themselves?
First of all, by gathering from all the posts in Sgforums, I have found out that most people like to give rhetorical replies, sarcastic remarks and/or useless smileys. ( note that it's and/or used, stating that both type of people exists.) Please take a look at this example from this thread in Sgforum: http://www.sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/316262 ..
can someone plan my life for me? i think i am heading towards self destruction
The above question was being asked, though it may seems "lame" or "stupid" for most people, I believe the Thread Starter is trying to explain his/her feelings to the viewers. Maybe a simple reply like, " Hmm, relax bah, take a step back and see further skies.." or " Take it easy." could be said.. Or maybe if you really feel like it's far beyond your concern, maybe by being quiet will be the BEST option.. However, let's take a look from these replies,"
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day 1: run around orchard road naked.
day 2: run around geylang naked.
day 3: run around Chinatown naked.
day 4: run around Little India naked
day 5: run around town from polices
day 6: let everything settled down and get some rest.
day 7: run around the Istana naked.
that should suffice you for the whole week.
tell me when your done with my plan for u.
i shall have another plan for u rdy
Edited by Daisuke-kun 02 May `08, 8:52PM
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And even worse,
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Go and die please.......thanks GOD this isn't Aunt Agony Forum. Or I might really have taken you seriously.However if you do your usual extra thing as repeat this topic in Aunt Agony Forum, then please use that time to end your forsaken life ok?
Thank you so much for being an extra one.
Is our values really crumbling down to pieces??? Is the society really this cruel as to tell someone that requires your concern to die?? Why did Sgforumers become so evil?? To the extent of telling someone to die??! And so much for a Sgforumer, see the italics words... can you sense the sarcasm???
And there is more. Trust me. Randomly click on any threads in Chit Chat, see for yourself, for I don't want to be infused by the cruelness of this society by viewing those posts. Not only in Chit Chat, see the top 10 forums. Click on every of them. See everyone of them. See how people gets scolded for nothing.
In life, would you like to get scolded for nothing? Would like to get scolded just because you need counselling? Why is it that in real life, people that replies those thread behaves so differently? Is it because the Internet is the only place you can say out thing you do not like?
And for God's sake, see the Heading of this Sgforum: Singapore's Online Community. What can you tell from the word community? Sarcarsm? Evil Replies? Lack of compassion? Devillish society? Cruel people?
Or put it in the crude way, is it just some weak people trying to act big f@#k? Notice why I put the word weak? Because only weak people does that? Heroes dies for others, not kill others. Only weaklings does try to act big f@#k when they weren't.
I also understand that some forums are full of compassion... but with comparison to the highest viewing sites and the lowest viewing sites.. Sites like "Chit Chat" has a huge number of visitors, viewers and authors all over, and it's very active.. But on the contrary , this is also the most junkiest forum, full of synthetic ,evil, dark and cruel replies. Not a quote but a fact. So this means that posting in these types of forums can easily get hurt and can easily get non-constructive comments.. which is quite understandable..
Moderators, I hope you can understand that you all can make the difference. Be it a harsh community, or a kind and generous society, it all depends on all of you. And naturally, the viewers too.
Okay, After saying so much, Ban me if you must. Cancel off my thread if you must. Spam this thread with synthetic replies for all you want. Ignore this thread for all you want. Laugh your head off for all you want. Jeer at me for being such a busybody for all you people want. But ask yourself, does it prick your conscience? Is the above true? Ask yourself, are you someone that changes your attitude totally once you are online, once you can post in forums whereby you can scold others?? Think. I am not God, I can't make you think. All depends on you.
you wont know who's posting genuine probs when there were tons of trolls around
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Couldn't agree more..
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you remind me of noisy lion with yur structuring of yur post
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Just do own's best and reply each topic as if it's a genuine problem lor.
Cool down la shade
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all is freewill.....
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Kudos to the TS for your posts. Its true that people use the forum as a venue to express their lames, sacrasm and anger. Its a place where people allow their mind to achieve freedom.
They do what they want without having to face much consequences. That is the things that does happen when you have a free forum like sgforums. Its not a big problem. Most of the weird people in here, they are just releasing and explanding their atler ego down here becos its safe here.
Outside in real world, they have to use their more normal self to interact becos they are more sensitive to others reaction in the real world. Word of caution to all those lamers and weirdos in the forum. YOur display of extreme sacrasm and lameness reflect a sense of discontent and friction within your self identity. Therefore, you have to reflect and resloves these issues so that you will achieve more peacefulness in your life.
GOod luck.
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